I'm still a virgin because nobody have approached me for that and well, even if there are, I'll most likely reject them; I'm one of those people that want to lose their virginity only to the person they're truly in love with and have plan to stay together to marriage, losing one's virginity will only happen once in a lifetime, so it's special/sacre......
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For me, it's more because I always feel really awkward whenever I try dating and that "Spark" just isn't there. I honestly think that I might be some form of asexual because that emotional connection never forms. I get more attached to my pets then I do people (that and the thought of someone's genitals touching mine makes me feel kinda gross) I think that maybe it might happen one day but if I could find someone that would just want to hang out and cuddle I would be happy never having sex. I might just get it over with one day just so that I could say that I did it.
naivety*? (● ̄(エ) ̄●) yes.. that (it's time to go to sleep > ^ <)
I'm scared to. Love is so beautiful and precious that I feel undeserving. So, the thought of losing my virginity is unbearable. I don't shy from social situations, in fact I embrace them. However, my expectations of love and perception of love in reality are conflicted. I'm scared that love can be nothing more than a facade--a fallacy because of my naiveivity. Without skepticism I hope, and long for it. There are more complexities but ... that is why I am a virigin.