Eyes, then shoes, then hands, then self grooming. You can usually tell a lot about a person from the state of their shoes, hands, and hygiene/grooming (like wealth, occupation, how much they value their appearance, etc).
I’m very detail oriented and people with bpd tend to memorize shit about people and use them to make quick judgments so I do...... 2 reply
I see if they are smiling , it’s easier to approach them that way, and if your just giving me a death glare, I am probably never talking to you again
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