Man is just a reflection

Kkkkkk just a reflection, it is apply for the most mangas who has a family (like with a kid). Why, the authors insist put the bottom as the mom?! Idk man, this doesn’t make any sense for me, cause I feel like they just want to put the relationship between two MANS more similar to a heterosexual relationship. Cause if the parents are two mans it’s two dads man simple as that. I’m not saying nothing against the gender identity, cause this is another thing... but at list for me mom is for females, exemple if my wife or kid calls me daddy i would be at list a little upset (maybe more wtf?!), cause it’s the same to ask who is the man/woman in the relationship (by the way never do that, it’s the worst thing you can ask man) this doesn’t exist baby!!! When we put the word gay, it’s a same sex couple, so no one take the role of the opposite gender... At last for me is just like “justify” or “relate” a gay relation with a straight one... just to maintain the ideology of what is a family... it’s the same when they put the bottom with a more feminine appearance—and by the way it’s really difficult to have a hard bottom and a hard top nowadays the most are flex so this is a little annoying too—and put the uke with a more submissive personality ( with is not a actually a problem if you chose to be more submissive and like to be take care of, what im say is cause this is like a formula to creat a bottom, with goes pretty similar to the ideals of a what woman have to be) like the seme always gona save him with his fucking macho vibes like he was a fucking Disney princes of the 70’s, and his whole life is just magic resolve when the “MAN” appears. This whole thing goes back to the stereotype rules (girls=pick and boys=blue/ girls cooks and boys work) and blábláblá you know the context, is just my opinion btw so... yeah That’s it :