help
i have a crush. she's beautiful, everything about her is perfect. she has a crush (who is obviously an asshole) but let's not talk about that...
I was kinda skeptical about me liking her, but then i was like...oh, yea i'd smash.
i don't like explicitly being touchy with my crushes, i only just hold hands with them. she always gladly accepts to hold hands with me, i don't find that wierd thought. i only hold hands with my bestfriend and soul sister.
Here's where the problems start to come: number one, she is straight but would gladly fuck a girl, so bi-curious? that's not really a problem but she considers herself "straight" for the most part. number two, she never let's go of my hand, not untill we have to part ways. number three, she gives me mixed signals.
what kind? you may ask? she says things like "we look like a couple", "we look like we are dating", "i'd gladly leave my crush to go out with you". this might seem like a playful thing on her part, but she's the one who says all these things, i never once mentionned going out or dating when we hold hands.
i've only told two people about me potentially liking her and wanting to date her but she's honestly getting on my nerves becausei hate mixed signals.
You're in my situation rn I don't know how to help when I can't help myself
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04 11,2020
BRUV. Salute from all your fellow wlw on this site! You should try to make things clear w her about how you feel, I agree that sounds frustrating—straight girls be like that. But also what straight girl says she’d leave her crush to date you?? Like that‘s p gay—
good luck child. o7
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04 11,2020
Damn that is interesting and confusing at the same time uhhh I can’t help never had been in situation like dis
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04 11,2020
ask her out. this is one a lifetime experience a girl says those things.
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04 11,2020
Don’t worry we all suffer from dumb gay bitch disease i would suggest you shoot your shot And if that doesn’t work out act like you’re joking since you make similar jokes to that idk
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04 11,2020
Oh man, mixed signals are a hellhole to navigate. Your relationship looks pretty good though. I'd argue that maybe you should wait a bit longer before making a move, but I'm no expert in love! ;)
All the best!
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04 11,2020