Should I not keep distance between my friends and myself?
I am currently a university student whose associates range from professors, and client of the projects to my classmates. But I did not find anyone clicking with me including my friend who considered me as her bff . I don't like having people around and making effort for it . Despite that, I still want someone , be it friends or lovers that have connection with me on the spiritual level. Is it too much to ask for ? Most of the time I like to be alone and it doesn't make me feel lonely . They said everyone needs companion or good friends in their life . Should I be concerned about mys being alone?
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I know exactly how you feeeeeeel.
What I noticed through my experience is that the more I tried to be around others, the more I wanted to be by myself. But I can also understand your feelings about wanting someone there. It's just nice to have someome there when you can't be there for yourself. If that made any sense ? Lol, that sounded selfish...
And quick question. Why is it that your friend consider you her bff, but you dont consider her as your bff ?
I know exactly how you feeeeeeel.
What I noticed through my experience is that the more I tried to be around others, the more I wanted to be by myself. But I can also understand your feelings about wanting someone there. It's just nice to have someome there when you can't be there for yourself. If that made any sense ? Lol, but then that also sounds really selfish.
And quick question. Why is it that your friend consider you her bff, but you dont consider her as your bff ?
Hello, Riki. I am actually surprised to find somebody other than me having the same feelings as I do. I have many people considering me as their friend, and even sister, but there are always a lot of things I can't talk to them, because I don't think they will be interested. I also don't like having too many people around me, but yes, I still wish I could find someone who has the same frequency of mind as mine. I can't really say anything regarding this issue, but I think it's fine if you like to be alone. At least you don't close your door completely to people, and you still interact with them. That can be the way to find those special people you can connect deeply with.
Same to you . I am surprised too. Thank you for your reply, notag . It helps .
You're very welcome. :)