When did you first lose you virginity

sorry, this is a pretty long story, but i think its worth the read,

I lost my virginity when I was 16 to my boyfriend at the time and it wasn't the best experience. So buckle up my friends because this gon be wild. My boyfriend at the time's friend let us use his room, what a bro right? Okay well, I was going to spend the night and the first thing i see when i walk into the guy's room with my bf was a bed sheet hanging from the ceiling so it divided the room in two. So naturally I was like ??? and then I was told that it was there so we could use the other half of the room in private, but like...his friend was still going to be there while we did it???? I was really against it but i was convinced to anyway. So my bf and i were getting intimate and his friend was in the other half of the room on his computer blasting music on his headphones. I was really really nervous and we didnt talk a lot throughout the experience. It also kind of hurt when he was "preparing" me which was eh as well but when it got down to it, there was a point in which i was riding him and i was so into it, like yeah this is good and he's just looking at me with a blank face and he just says "are you done yet?" and i was like wow wtf man, i felt so bad that I immediately got off and never wanted to try that again. The next few experiences were much better but eventually things didnt work out between us and he left.

I'm 23 now with a loving partner that loves and respects me. While sex isnt everything in a relationship, it is important to know that the age in which you loose your virginity doesnt matter. You should be with someone that you want to be intimate with. I think sex is supposed to be clumsy. Its loving, funny and intense. Please dont let societal standards make you feel pressured into something and make you feel any less than you are <3