Stereotypes

Girl, just reading all this is stressing me out. Chill~! Don’t try to b nobody but u. Everyone else will love it or hate it and that’s their issue not yours. Don’t let everyone try to box you in to one thing or another and just be who u r. You’re never going to please everyone no matter how hard you try. The only one who’s going to get hurt is you if you just let everyone’s opinion shape how you try to b. Talk how is natural to u. Dress how is natural to u. There is nothing wrong with being white or black or whatever u are. There is nothing wrong with being strait or gay or bi so don’t stress over how u come off. Just stand up for yourself and don’t let anyone tell you you’re something you’re not. People feel more comfortable categorizing others as something and someone will always find something to criticize you for. Don’t let that affect your own self-perception.

I know and people have told me this before but now I just feel really out of place. My Family says that I seem American since I don’t know how to properly speak the native language. My black friends say that I seem white since I talk like a white person. My gay friend said that I act straight since I dress like a straight girl and the last person I dated was a guy despite me having dated girls before. I’m trying really hard to learn the language I really am it’s just difficult for me. I tried learning how to talk with a thicker accent too but everything I say sounds weird now even when I’m speaking normally. Also I haven’t been dating because I haven’t found any time too. Should I start looking for someone to date again? Idk. I just really hate myself rn.