So a month ago friend A was roasting me and he joked about how I dressed “like a straight girl” and for some reason that really bothered me. I know he wasn’t trying to make me feel bad but something about that made feel weird. So I was ranting to friend B about it and she said “I feel like you dress more like a white girl if anything” so I asked her if that was a bad thing and she said “I’m not saying it’s a bad thing I’m just saying that you do”. And I just- what? What is that supposed to mean? I’m not trying to say it’s bad to be straight or that it’s bad to be white but how am I supposed to take that? The whole thing made me feel really bad about myself so I decided to buy some clothes that seemed more “gay” which mainly consisted of flannel shirts and jeans. I got a compliment from friend A saying that I didn’t dress like a straight girl anymore and I was expecting to feel bit better about the whole situation but I honestly didn’t. It just made me feel worse about myself. Plus I may dress like “a bi girl” now but does that mean I look more like “a white girl” and if I choose to dress more like “a black girl” will I stop looking like “a bi girl”. Is there an in between? What if I don’t like how the clothes in the in between look? Now I’m really insecure about how I’m dressing. Idk dude. Any advice on what to do?
