I was asking myself if the yaoi anal sex could be relatable to het anal sex...And so I ask to those who did it, do you get the same feeling (more or less) that yaoi depicts?
I tried it once; It sometimes feels like something is filling your lower stomach Never thought I'd be interested in it or say that here but it feels kinda...good?
I'm gay. But a good foreplay eases the pain. getting excited to stretch your ass a bit, because it is quite tight. lubricant / saliva and fingers really helps. (that is true with the yaoi stories) I always do that when I have sex, not with myself but with that person. And I have never heard that it hurts. I just let it slide inside and then build up the speed.
And I have never experienced that someone was walking weird after the sex or pain in his ass. (that is not always true with the yaoi storie)
so good sex needs good foreplay. a bit strange for me to tell this, Normally I do not talk about sex but I just do it.
Hi, I'm one of the girls who're interested in trying it out
Actually, yaoi alone didn't lead me to consider it. But just like a bunch of people, it got me hooked around 8 years ago; I wasn't aware of the possibility before, until I became conscious about it and curious while seeing it on mangas.
Surprisingly, I felt my sexuality was a lot more free and happy just by thinking of it and reading BL. Specially since I had some hardships with the "actual" way of doing it as a woman. And I remembered - or rather, kinda found out while recalling - the only one time I really felt satisfied was when my partner was teasing me there. But I wasn't able to let go of whatever complex I had then. Now I'm more honest, got upside down and became a (big) M, I'm really into trying it for real.
So, now thanks to every answer in here I've got a better idea of what it's, and how to compare with what I read. Thank you too for sharing advice and your experience!
Hi, I'm one of the girls who're interested in trying it outActually, yaoi alone didn't lead me to consider it. But just like a bunch of people, it got me hooked around 8 years ago; I wasn't aware of the possibi... Anne / あん~♥
my first time anal sex was when I was 16 years old. I was literally stiff with nerves, I could not relax my ass despite being drunk, the idea that it will hurt. Luckily the person I had sex with was more experienced. funny is that he said treat a boy just like you a girl treated, good foreplay leads to good sex. I have never let anyone else take me only him.
if you want to know more, then I will hear it from you. and do not forget the condom Omg I look like a teacher. (⊙…⊙ )
my first time anal sex was when I was 16 years old. I was literally stiff with nerves, I could not relax my ass despite being drunk, the idea that it will hurt. Luckily the person I had sex with was more experi... bl-lover
It's okay, reminders are always welcome XD Teachers keep on saying safety basics precisely because students tend to forget it.
Thanks for taking on my questioning, I don't know if I'm any good to ask further (matter of embarrassment), but I'll think about it. Talking about first times, I don't actually know if I'll be either freaking out or the one jumping the person, and there's preparation too to keep in mind. But I guess it's all matter of finding someone who will make it emotionally and physically safer, yes.
It's okay, reminders are always welcome XD Teachers keep on saying safety basics precisely because students tend to forget it.Thanks for taking on my questioning, I don't know if I'm any good to ask further (ma... Anne / あん~♥
I personally do not find it embarrassing to answer questions about sex experiences. I also believe that it is better to have sex with someone you love. who has respect for you personally and physically. I know it feels weird in the beginning. but if you take it easy a few times in the beginning, you get used to it. hahaha sorry I do not want to embarrass you. I am quite openly discussing sex. usually the pain comes through that someone does not have much experience yet. and I am not a playboy because I have those experiences lol ⁄(⁄ ⁄·⁄ω⁄·⁄ ⁄)⁄
I'm a female and a huge fan of anal. I'm also a masochist, so the pain is the turn on for me. Having no prostate means orgasm really doesn't happen, but clitoral stimulation during anal does the job quite nicely. As vamplady states, there is no self lubrication in rl anal, not even for men. Though, after enough stimulation, the mucous membranes in the anal cavity will get a little wetter, but it's not a "dripping" wet like it is depicted in Yaoi. I've known guys that precum a lot and, if they are laying on their back, it will drip down to their ass. Maybe that is where Yaoi gets it? For men, the prostate gland basically acts as a spigot for the urethra. When it is stimulated and swollen, it prevents urine from passing into the urethra from the bladder. Thus, allowing semen to move freely from the vas, to the testicles, where it picks up sperm, and on to the urethra for ejaculation. The stimulation of the prostate also triggers the engorgement of the penis, preparing for penetration and copulation. So, when a guy gets a prostate massage, they get a hard on that will cut diamonds. Normally, the prostate is only stimulated my blood flow, but when manually stimulated through the anus or perineum (much harder to do successfully), the effect is greater. The prostate is located approximately three to five inches past the anal sphincter on the anterior (front side of the body) wall of the anal cavity/rectum. When the guy is flaccid, the prostate will feel like an indentation in the rectal wall. When he is erect, it will feel like a "speed bump", or a slightly raised area. "Doggy style" is the preferred position for stimulation for both partners because both the frenulum and the prostate rub against each other in this position. I can tell you every detail about the anatomy and mechanics of a prostate orgasm, but sadly, I can't tell you how it feels. :( Though, I have given prostate massages to partners and those who had never had one were amazed at the intensity of the orgasm compared to manual or vaginal stimulation (masturbation or sex with a woman).
You're asking "how the hell does she know all this?" Right? First, I am a nurse. I also took premed classes in college and anatomy was my absolute favorite class. Second, I put myself through college working in the "adult entertainment" industry. I have, literally, hundreds of gay friends who were also in the industry and were kind enough to educate me. Having worked in New York, Philadelphia, Baltimore and New Orleans, gave me a wide range of teachers and guinea pigs. LOL This is also where I found my own passion for anal sex.
As a gay man I beg to differ. A prostrate massage will not necessarily result in a hard-on. My experience is rather that the massaged guy will not become erect or loose his erection if the prostrate is strongly stimulated. Myself I usually loose my stiffy because of the overwhelming Feelings ;) But that's no Problem pe se, as it's still fucking hot.
For me, I'm a female myself too but I find anal stuff VERY pleasing, and it feels very good. Personally I can only really cum from internal stimulation, external like around the clit just feels too much for me, so I don't particularly enjoy it that much. But because I'm sensitive overall, internal stimulation feels AMAZING, so I can cum from for example, a vibe in my ass with minimal stimulation externally, like slight pressure. I might just be weird, lol.
As princenoah wrote, yaoi sex in general is very unrealistic, as is sex in any kind of porn. Personally, I could never get any excitement out of it. It didn't hurt or feel bad, I think "slightly uncomfortable" describes it best for me, a bit like you really need to take a dump maybe. Might be that my butt just isn't an erogenous zone or my partner just wasn't very skilled... But no, for me it's nothing like in yaoi.
It feels really good actually. Once you are being properly prepared obviously. If not, it hurts like a son of a bitch, since it doesn't self lubricate, you have to do it or your partner. I'm sharing my own experience, I have no idea about everybody else. and like I said earlier, I would like to know too, the difference between Yaoi anal and real life gay anal. my apologies if that is not the correct word. feel free to correct me.
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I tried it once; It sometimes feels like something is filling your lower stomach
Never thought I'd be interested in it or say that here but it feels kinda...good?
Ngl I'm scared to try anal. I feel like it's going to rip.
Wow(⌒▽⌒)
I'm gay. But a good foreplay eases the pain.
getting excited to stretch your ass a bit, because it is quite tight.
lubricant / saliva and fingers really helps. (that is true with the yaoi stories)
I always do that when I have sex, not with myself but with that person.
And I have never heard that it hurts. I just let it slide inside and then build up the speed.
And I have never experienced that someone was walking weird after the sex or pain in his ass. (that is not always true with the yaoi storie)
so good sex needs good foreplay.
a bit strange for me to tell this, Normally I do not talk about sex but I just do it.
but interesting that girls also love anal...
Hi, I'm one of the girls who're interested in trying it out
Actually, yaoi alone didn't lead me to consider it. But just like a bunch of people, it got me hooked around 8 years ago; I wasn't aware of the possibility before, until I became conscious about it and curious while seeing it on mangas.
Surprisingly, I felt my sexuality was a lot more free and happy just by thinking of it and reading BL. Specially since I had some hardships with the "actual" way of doing it as a woman. And I remembered - or rather, kinda found out while recalling - the only one time I really felt satisfied was when my partner was teasing me there. But I wasn't able to let go of whatever complex I had then.
Now I'm more honest, got upside down and became a (big) M, I'm really into trying it for real.
So, now thanks to every answer in here I've got a better idea of what it's, and how to compare with what I read.
Thank you too for sharing advice and your experience!
my first time anal sex was when I was 16 years old.
I was literally stiff with nerves, I could not relax my ass despite being drunk, the idea that it will hurt.
Luckily the person I had sex with was more experienced.
funny is that he said treat a boy just like you a girl treated, good foreplay leads to good sex.
I have never let anyone else take me only him.
if you want to know more, then I will hear it from you.
and do not forget the condom
Omg I look like a teacher. (⊙…⊙ )
It's okay, reminders are always welcome XD
Teachers keep on saying safety basics precisely because students tend to forget it.
Thanks for taking on my questioning, I don't know if I'm any good to ask further (matter of embarrassment), but I'll think about it. Talking about first times, I don't actually know if I'll be either freaking out or the one jumping the person, and there's preparation too to keep in mind. But I guess it's all matter of finding someone who will make it emotionally and physically safer, yes.
I personally do not find it embarrassing to answer questions about sex experiences.
I also believe that it is better to have sex with someone you love.
who has respect for you personally and physically.
I know it feels weird in the beginning.
but if you take it easy a few times in the beginning, you get used to it.
hahaha sorry I do not want to embarrass you. I am quite openly discussing sex.
usually the pain comes through that someone does not have much experience yet.
and I am not a playboy because I have those experiences lol ⁄(⁄ ⁄·⁄ω⁄·⁄ ⁄)⁄
I'm the one who puts it in so I can't be of much help but my very eloquent boyfriend says that it kind of feels like pooping but in reverse.
I'm a female and a huge fan of anal. I'm also a masochist, so the pain is the turn on for me. Having no prostate means orgasm really doesn't happen, but clitoral stimulation during anal does the job quite nicely. As vamplady states, there is no self lubrication in rl anal, not even for men. Though, after enough stimulation, the mucous membranes in the anal cavity will get a little wetter, but it's not a "dripping" wet like it is depicted in Yaoi. I've known guys that precum a lot and, if they are laying on their back, it will drip down to their ass. Maybe that is where Yaoi gets it? For men, the prostate gland basically acts as a spigot for the urethra. When it is stimulated and swollen, it prevents urine from passing into the urethra from the bladder. Thus, allowing semen to move freely from the vas, to the testicles, where it picks up sperm, and on to the urethra for ejaculation. The stimulation of the prostate also triggers the engorgement of the penis, preparing for penetration and copulation. So, when a guy gets a prostate massage, they get a hard on that will cut diamonds. Normally, the prostate is only stimulated my blood flow, but when manually stimulated through the anus or perineum (much harder to do successfully), the effect is greater. The prostate is located approximately three to five inches past the anal sphincter on the anterior (front side of the body) wall of the anal cavity/rectum. When the guy is flaccid, the prostate will feel like an indentation in the rectal wall. When he is erect, it will feel like a "speed bump", or a slightly raised area. "Doggy style" is the preferred position for stimulation for both partners because both the frenulum and the prostate rub against each other in this position. I can tell you every detail about the anatomy and mechanics of a prostate orgasm, but sadly, I can't tell you how it feels. :( Though, I have given prostate massages to partners and those who had never had one were amazed at the intensity of the orgasm compared to manual or vaginal stimulation (masturbation or sex with a woman).
You're asking "how the hell does she know all this?" Right? First, I am a nurse. I also took premed classes in college and anatomy was my absolute favorite class. Second, I put myself through college working in the "adult entertainment" industry. I have, literally, hundreds of gay friends who were also in the industry and were kind enough to educate me. Having worked in New York, Philadelphia, Baltimore and New Orleans, gave me a wide range of teachers and guinea pigs. LOL This is also where I found my own passion for anal sex.
This is good info
Thanks. Glad to be of help. (⌒▽⌒)
Wow :O just wow.. I think you just made my mind even more dirty than before..
A dirty mind is a terrible thing to waste... enjoy it! LOL
As a gay man I beg to differ. A prostrate massage will not necessarily result in a hard-on. My experience is rather that the massaged guy will not become erect or loose his erection if the prostrate is strongly stimulated. Myself I usually loose my stiffy because of the overwhelming Feelings ;) But that's no Problem pe se, as it's still fucking hot.
For me, I'm a female myself too but I find anal stuff VERY pleasing, and it feels very good. Personally I can only really cum from internal stimulation, external like around the clit just feels too much for me, so I don't particularly enjoy it that much. But because I'm sensitive overall, internal stimulation feels AMAZING, so I can cum from for example, a vibe in my ass with minimal stimulation externally, like slight pressure. I might just be weird, lol.
As princenoah wrote, yaoi sex in general is very unrealistic, as is sex in any kind of porn. Personally, I could never get any excitement out of it. It didn't hurt or feel bad, I think "slightly uncomfortable" describes it best for me, a bit like you really need to take a dump maybe. Might be that my butt just isn't an erogenous zone or my partner just wasn't very skilled... But no, for me it's nothing like in yaoi.
It can still feel good without but a prostate is an advantage. I wouldn't compare rl anal sex to yaoi though as a whole lot of it is very unrealistic.
I thought it only feels good on men? cuz their g spot is the prostate. now im curious too
It feels really good actually. Once you are being properly prepared obviously. If not, it hurts like a son of a bitch, since it doesn't self lubricate, you have to do it or your partner. I'm sharing my own experience, I have no idea about everybody else. and like I said earlier, I would like to know too, the difference between Yaoi anal and real life gay anal. my apologies if that is not the correct word. feel free to correct me.
I would like to know that too.