Are my friends toxic ??
Hello , so I'm a high schooler (16 y.o) , I used to hang out with my two friends since middleschool but the year we passed to HS , the changed somehow .
They would tell me jokes that hurt me like :
why you dress like this ? -You look ugly - Mmmh , You're not pretty - You should try something else - Your outfit is just laame
And there is that day , I felt like they insulted my MOTHER . I am the youngest among my siblings so my mother is her 50's . while those two girls are the oldest , their mothers are in the 30's . So , when we met one of their mothers , I said : wow , your mother looks young !
the other one replied :WeLl oUr moThErS aRe YouNg (〜￣△￣)〜
Btw , they met my mother before , and then I felt rrly rrly annoyed , like she said it in a manner , like she wante to hurt me saying that.
I don't talk with them anymore , I want to finish this "friendship" but I don't want to be lonely and the same time I wanna live my high school days with good memories (≧∀≦) Please tell me what should I do ? and thank you so much for reading (●'◡'●)ﾉ
I used to have friends like that.
If they're being mean to you and continuously making jokes like that, I think it'd be best to leave at some point- before they tear away at your confidence.
Just maybe spend less time around them, you don't even have to really drop them.
If you can, please tell them that you don't like these kinds of jokes, even ......
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I used to have friends like that.
If they're being mean to you and continuously making jokes like that, I think it'd be best to leave at some point- before they tear away at your confidence.
Just maybe spend less time around them, you don't even have to really drop them.
If you can, please tell them that you don't like these kinds of jokes, even if they make an excuse like 'ur overreacting'- because you are entitled to confront people when they hurt you.
17 10,2020
