Are my friends toxic ??
Hello , so I'm a high schooler (16 y.o) , I used to hang out with my two friends since middleschool but the year we passed to HS , the changed somehow .
They would tell me jokes that hurt me like :
why you dress like this ? -You look ugly - Mmmh , You're not pretty - You should try something else - Your outfit is just laame
And there is that day , I felt like they insulted my MOTHER . I am the youngest among my siblings so my mother is her 50's . while those two girls are the oldest , their mothers are in the 30's . So , when we met one of their mothers , I said : wow , your mother looks young !
the other one replied :WeLl oUr moThErS aRe YouNg (〜￣△￣)〜
Btw , they met my mother before , and then I felt rrly rrly annoyed , like she said it in a manner , like she wante to hurt me saying that.
I don't talk with them anymore , I want to finish this "friendship" but I don't want to be lonely and the same time I wanna live my high school days with good memories (≧∀≦) Please tell me what should I do ? and thank you so much for reading (●'◡'●)ﾉ
girl they are obviously toxic, but I get the feeling of not wanting to be alone, but its okay just go on discord o some other porn website (ppl there are always lonely and nice :D)
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17 10,2020
Good friends or at least normal wouldn't say such things. Ur dress, hair cut or something... People d know what loyalty means. Even if they don't like something about u, they must say: 'U r pretty, but this dress isn't very suit u', 'It s great choice, but ...' . And about ur parents... They can think, what they want, but not to tell it.
From my p......
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17 10,2020
They got there heads so far up their asses that they think they’re better than you smh, they have no right to be called friends in any aspect. And all this is showing is that this is how they’re going to act when they get adults. So it’s better to drop them now before they hurt you anymore.
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17 10,2020
If you think your friendship with them is really close tell them how you feel about what they’re saying. And if they act like your too sensitive drop them. That’s so rude and I probs would’ve told them off by now.
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17 10,2020
Mm sis they insulted ur mother, i say drop em.
Also, try to test the waters by jokingoy telling them the same thing they're telling you, if they retaliate then run lmao
Me and my friends insult each other but it's all in good fun and we know it's all just jokes
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17 10,2020
Ditch them. My mother is the oldest in my friend group, also in her 50's, but I just started High school. It doesn't matter if you don't want to be lonely, but they don't deserve you. Also please drop them soon because they're going to make you feel really bad and it can be really bad for your health! You can't have good memories if they're the peo......
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17 10,2020
tbh I joke and accept jokes like these only with my male friends and its never one-sided , however with my girls I rarely joke around with stuff like this and they tend to do the same.
My point is if its one sided ,like they joke like this with you and you do not reply at all (cause thats how u know someone is hurt, its when they dont have anythi......
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17 10,2020
use them to not be alone at school
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17 10,2020
Believe me you’re gonna be lonelier with such people
I’m 21 now and I regret wasting my high school days with toxic friends only cuz i fear loneliness
Believe me those people have lots of insecurities and are throwing them at you cuz u stay silent
Don’t fear loneliness fear toxic people
When you go to uni you will know the real loneliness......
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