Well you see, I'm pretty open about my kinks and fetishes and stuff with some of my close friends but this one time I told one of my friends and she told me that "I should be ashamed of them, and never talk about them. I should NEVER ask a man to do things like that" Now your thinking "Bms or s and m" But it was just teasing, Foreplay, stuff like that. Should I be ashamed? If you SO asked you to do that, would you?
I don't think you have anything to be ashamed of, because everyone is different, and we all have some kind of fetish. To put it simply, it's human nature/ lust. And it's not just you , and I think your friend is too closed minded . reply