Coming out advice

I think I'm gay and it's hard to come out to my parents since 1, they're asian and 2, they don't accept their children, me, to be a part of lgbtq+. Although they are fine with the lgbtq+ community, they just can't accept if it's their children being one. I'm still scared to show my gay side since I mainly act like a man they want and expect me to be and it's taking a huge toll in my self-confidence. None of my friends know about me being one and it's just as scary to come out to them as well. Do any of you have any advice?