Coming out advice

I think I'm gay and it's hard to come out to my parents since 1, they're asian and 2, they don't accept their children, me, to be a part of lgbtq+. Although they are fine with the lgbtq+ community, they just can't accept if it's their children being one. I'm still scared to show my gay side since I mainly act like a man they want and expect me to be and it's taking a huge toll in my self-confidence. None of my friends know about me being one and it's just as scary to come out to them as well. Do any of you have any advice?

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Avocado 13 10,2020

Aaah! Im sorry I can't really help you out there, but I would try coming out to them when your out of their house. They can't really do anything to you/ tell you what to do when your not under their house anymore. But you should still be free to be yourself and if you do have any open-minded friends then I would open little by little to them ^^ I g...... 1 reply

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NahThanks 13 10,2020

If i were you, i wouldn't say anything. If your still wanna say, just find a good chance, if they're talk about LGBTQ+ you can subtly tell them ( w joking tone ) maybe they'll notice your actions and time by time will accept you. Actually idk either cuz my mom was a bi so i don't know your situation much 1 reply

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HoldenTudix 13 10,2020

Id say test them little by little if they seem against it dont, atleast not until you can live on your own and fend for yourself. 1 reply

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Akire 13 10,2020

I'm sorry about that. Hiding your real self must be frustrating. I understand you a little since I'm asian too and I know most of the older generation are homophobic. Being practical here, think of the consequences. What will happen if you tell your parents? Will they abandon you? If not, what's the worst thing that could happen? Do you think the...... 2 reply

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