my toxic ass mother
i'm sorry if this is worded weirdly.
my mom cannot control her anger so the moment she gets mad she yells at me and my brothers and she hits us if we piss her off some more. she always tells me i'm a failure and an embarrassment and that i'll never be shit in life. she doesn't care about how I feel but wants me to care about how she feels. i don't think i can say the everything i want to say, oops. just know she hurts me mentally and physically.
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Maybe she's having a hard time. I'm aware that it's not right for you and your brothers to get hurt like that, but maybe try to put effort to give her less stress. I'm not saying to put yourselves down so you won't be annoying to her. No. I'm saying she has a role as a mother that's taking care of your family, try not to bother her much but don't let yourselves be put down because she releases her anger to your fam. She said she wants to be understood, right? Both of the parties should understand what they're doing and affecting to one another. Even if she's stubborn to not want to care about your feelings, she's still human. Conscience will hit her someday and she'll realize that her not taking well care of her anger issues, is making her and her children's lives bad.
And yeah, I'm so sorry I'm just saying this out of nowhere, I just wanted to try to point out what you, your brothers, and your mother, could do.
Sorry if it doesnt sound like you need this ╥_╥
I hope you and your fam will be happy ♡
I know she's having a hard time and I try to stay out of trouble and stay out of her way. Thank you for your input.
I am so sorry you and your brother have to live with such a toxic person :( You and your brothers are so strong for being able to put up with that, and I hope mangago has been a safe haven and a place to enjoy yourself. I want you are worth way more than what your mother describes you to be, and that her words don't determine how successful you will be in life.
If it gets to the point where you can't handle it anymore, I think you should go to talk to an adult such as a school counselor, the police, or anyone in the community you feel you can reach out to. I hope you and your brother can get out of this toxic environment soon.
*brothers
Mangago has been very enjoyable lol. Personally, I don't really think I will go that far in life (I can't really handle reality) so her saying that stuff just irritates me because I already know that I will not be successful. I talk to my social worker and a school counselor.
I went through the same thing the only reason she stopped is because she realized she needed a house to go into when she's older now she sexualizes me by touching my ass without permission and tries to make me take my clothes off so she could see my area it gets better once you're older and is able to legally leave I send my hope to you
That's horrible! Have you tried talking to an adult?
Or have you escaped the situation already?