Pedophilia

Ok so I just recently saw a question about shots cons and how since it’s fiction it’s ok. I personally disagree with that but where exactly do you draw the line when it comes to kids doing sexual things in fiction. Like for example a lot of the smut here takes place in a high school setting where both the main characters are minors. Wouldn’t people who read that and enjoy it also be considered pedophiles. Or does it only cross the line when they look like very young kids. So would like lolis be bad but reverse lolis are fine? (this is an actual thing). Wouldn’t that make like 75% of the people on this site pedophiles since a lot of you guys are apparently legal adults? Isn’t that kind of hypocritical of you guys to shame people for doing that when it’s essentially the same thing?