i have no fucking clue what my sexuality is

mushroom cloud mushroom cloud 2020-09-23 13:38:56 About lgbt
yeah. i could just go with straight, and it's what i've been going with my whole life because i've never felt the need to change it, but ever since going on this site and learning about more lgbtq+, i really don't know.

i haven't really been wholeheartedly attracted to someone before, like i might have some little crushes and be like "oh he's cute, i like him" but never do anything about it. i also have a problem where i can't get invested in something or someone really easily, and as much as dating someone sounds awesome, i feel like i'll probably get bored.

i'll find girls hot and sometimes cute, same with boys. i've also never really met a person part of the lgbtq+ community, and the only trans person i've ever met was old enough to be my aunt, so i'm now even more fucking confused about my sexuality.

maybe i'll just be shroom-sexual forever.

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GoYohan superiority February 3, 2021 3:00 am

I was confused for a long time too, I bounced between labels for too long and honestly I just introduce myself as a lesbian now because I don’t need others to validate my sexuality, is it complex? Sure, but I do know what I like. Just be patient and experience life as it comes, and remember that labels are generally just tools used to unnecessarily categorize you into what makes others most comfortable. People change too often and the world has too many factors for me to be definitive about labels, especially in sexuality, so play it by feel.

lulu potato sensei September 23, 2020 1:48 pm

yeah, younger I started to question my sexuality because of yuri. With time I learned how to make the difference between real attraction and the :"She/he not bad looking" feeling

mushroom cloud September 23, 2020 3:48 pm

haha wish i could determine the difference as well

lulu potato sensei September 23, 2020 7:21 pm
haha wish i could determine the difference as well mushroom cloud

I don't know how to describe it. Maybe ask yourself if you admire/ want to be like that person or be with them

mushroom cloud September 24, 2020 3:41 am
I don't know how to describe it. Maybe ask yourself if you admire/ want to be like that person or be with them lulu potato sensei

the problem is i have no clue what the boundaries of friendship and love are

jasper September 23, 2020 1:40 pm

Maybe your aromantic and asexual?

mushroom cloud September 23, 2020 3:47 pm

i'm not sure, i've never actually dated someone and so i've never had the urge to have sex? but i'm okay with reading about sex (whether it be straight, lesbian, gay, etc)?

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