the term ;; fujoshi/fudanshi

i don't really get how people pinpoint the term 'fujoshi/fudanshi' (going to use fujo/fuda for the sake of keeping it short from now on) as a label that automatically means you fetishize gay men?

to keep it short n' sweet ; fujo/fuda means someone who is into mlm content. that's all there is. it is a label that means you read,,, bl.
it doesn't mean that you all of a sudden stalk men and ship them together for the sake of your own enjoyment. and frankly, those stereotypes really are quite ?? dumb.
sure, a better term would be 'bl lover' or, something like 'bl reader' but it doesn't quite fit yk? i don't understand the people that automatically not want to associate with people who are fujins, they're just reading g a y shit.

tl;dr
fujoshi, fudanshi, fujin, etc, does not mean 'people who fetishize gay relationships, people, etc'. it simply means you like bl.

ty for coming to my ted talk, lol. feel free to voice your own thoughts n opinions; whether you disagree or not.