so my father's been touching my thighs or somewhere intimate for years. My dad has been touching me in intimate places since i was born, but i became conscious and uncomfortable of it. He does it everytime he comes back from work or when he tries to wake me up. I told my mom about it and told my father was just expressing his "love" for me as his child.
I know I shouldnt ask this here, but telling strangers your problems is actually easier than telling someone close.
Call a friend or anyone who you trust and inform them about your situation. Also please raise your voice and say that you do not like being touched in intimate places. If he still keeps up with that sick attitude, call the police cuz what he is doing to his child is definitely not normal. If he genuinely has no perverted intentions, tell him to ch...... reply
I believe you, OP. I went through something similar.
He's an adult, he ought to know boundaries around his own kids. You shouldn't have to tell him "I'm uncomfortable" for him to understand you are. And if it's ongoing, that's his willful choice. HE WILL NOT STOP UNLESS YOU GET ADULTS INVOLVED. I need you to be brave and do what others suggested,...... reply