Hellish's SERIOUS Vent (LONG)
Hi everyone, Hellish here. :)
I have a very important topic I want to share.
Just today, a secret has been revealed to me, one that has been kept a secret for all my life.
I found out that my 2 siblings, who aren't related by blood, used to have a relationship other than siblings. I don't really know how to cope with it since they have been lying to me.
We 3 are like 3 peas in a pod, but recently my Aunt has told me that I need to support them and to challenge them to find different lovers, because their relationship is not healthy. She is encouraging me to "leave the nest" like a bird, change isn't easy but I need to find a way to leave the trio and convince them to leave to find their soulmates.
The thing about my siblings are that my sister has daddy issues, and my brother has mommy issues, so I'm guessing that since they both need a man and women in their life to take care of them like 'mommies and daddies'. They both are too co-dependent on each other and too comfortable. Since they both don't really go out much, they're just going to go attach to the closes man and woman.
Their relationship is not healthy and I must keep this from all the oldies, like parents and grandparents. (Keep in mind this was 11-12 years ago)
NOTE: All my brothers did NOT hangout with my poor sister until she lost 100 pounds, and how did she loose all of that? My aunt helped her, and what did my sister do after hanging out with my brother? She drifted away from my Aunts. All my Aunts were there for her when she was at her lowest, but she still ran after my pathetic brothers. Everything is different now though, everyone has a good relationship and everything.
Why did all my Aunts and Uncle finally decide to tell me? Because this whole weekend, my siblings went ALONE to go backpacking. They usually got backpacking with ALL my Aunts and Uncles. So everyone was getting weird vibes and suspicious.
I am not disgusted by this, maybe at first a little bit, but I just realized I was more overwhelmed than disgusted. I don't know how to take it all in since it was so fast. But these 2 are SO close that everyone suspected that they were dating from the start.
I also CANNOT, tell my siblings that this was all revealed to me.
So what should I do to get through this?
This was very long, forgive me, but please do not post anything mean and anything that could be offensive to me. I also feel like everyone on Mangago are my Therapists and are very kind to me, so that is why I am coming to you guys. Thank you so much for reading, I know I'd usually post something funny or stupid, but please don't take this very lightly, my life right now isn't actually the greatest so please take this seriously.
- Hellish