ok serious question-

Uhhh, honestly, I kinda feel like you need to talk about it to your stepfather. The older you get, the more privacy you want, and that is totally fair, so I feel like it's pretty wrong of your stepfather to deny you that, but at the same time, I think it's necessary to understand what he means by not being ''responsible'' in this situation. Just tr......   1 reply

I don't even have a door :(   1 reply

Red flag (Unless I misunderstood but get it just in case)! Get a lock who gives a fuck what he said just bc he’s old or own the house does not mean you should do what he says. Your idea of having a lock is SAFETY and him denying the safety is suspicious. Try talking to your mom about having a lock.   1 reply

Ok I read your replies and seeing as consulting your mom to back you up didn't even work maybe you could just be like hey if you're not gonna let me have a lock then you guys should not have the right to a lock on your bedrooms either. Whatever reason like "Well we're adults and we need our privacy" they hit you with, just counter it back at them l......   2 reply

He should still give you a lock. I don't understand what your dad means by "responsiblity". Ask him if he trusts you or not. If he answers like no or says something like this,"Of course I trust you, but i want you to be responsible." those answers equivalent to, lol no i no trusty you.   1 reply

buy one of those master locks   reply

Have you told someone other than your parents about this? Maybe they can help you talk it out with your parents. Especially after reading your replies that your stepdad is a perv.   reply