Why is this still a thing??
I've been reading BL and Yaoi for some time now and this still bothers me.
It's not rare for couples to have struggles, fights and to get upset over things. That's completely normal, but I realized that in a lot of BL manga, that when the seme gets mad, he decides to have s€x with the uke instead of talking it out first? It wouldn't bother me that much if it was romantic at least, but I've seen a lot of scenes where the s€x is forced (uke saying/screaming "no" or saying he doesn't want this). It's not that ALL stories have this, but I still see this a lot and it always makes me feel uneasy and it's always hard to forget. I mean, s€x as punishment? I get that you're hurt but forcefully and violently having s€x with your partner is not the solution... to me this counts as r*pe, too, especially when the uke repeatedly says he doesn't want this. I don't get why this hasn't died down. "You made me jealous, so I will have s€x with you as punishment even if you don't want it which is basically rape then"
I just don't get why this is a thing among some artists... r*ping your own partner? Imagine getting r*ped by the person you love. I'm sorry if I sounded overdramatic in some points but I just had some bad experiences and such scenes hit really close. It really upsets me since I enjoy reading BL and romance in general but scenes like these just take all the joy and excitement that I used to have away from me. I'm sorry if there's some typos or bad grammar! :(
Have a nice day
yeah i feel u it gets me mad too like "why the hell are u treating him like that?!" it makes me feel upset & angry at the same time but i mostly continue reading it, so i dont rlly know what to feel or say lmao
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21 08,2020
Yeah, it's kind of sad/annoying. I think scenes like that are usually a result of lazy writing. The artist wants a scene to show jealousy and a sex scene. So, they stitch them together and you get those scenes. It's also possible that they also have a thing for punishment sex/rape.
I say "sex/ rape" because people do it in real life as some kind o......
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24 08,2020
You are exactly right. I see this shit so often and honestly it bothers me a lot. I also hate how most of the time it gets brushed off as if it were nothing. Like rape is rape.
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24 08,2020
If it bothers you, just don’t read it There is a reason why it’s a mature content, if you can’t handle it then please just leave it alone and don’t bother to go there. A lot of people likes to fantasizes these (I noticed people who feel unworthy or traumatized or into dark things read these kind of things so I think you should just let it g......
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21 08,2020
totally understand but hey we make stories that include things like this so it doesn't happen irl yk
if you have a fetish for rape or something like that then you just look up books or comics that will fulfill your yearning for the topic
they just want to quench the thirst for those horny masochists and sadists
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24 08,2020
