how am i ever supposed to have sex when i cant even put a tampon in

Lol I'm grown as hell and I still don't use tampons. It's so uncomfortable I can't. But sex is different tho. As long as you're turned on, communicate well, and relaxed it should be an enjoyable experience. Remember not to take any smut manga to heart lol! Sex is not suppose to be painful like it keeps getting portrayed.   reply

Bruh deadass, sexs is not for me bro that shit seems hella scary also I like women not men but like dildos are scary too, if not even more scary then real meat sticks   reply

So, essentially, I use exclusively tampons. Mainly since they last longer and are generally more comfortable for me. I started out essentially with the same problem, I was too much of a pussy (ha get it) To put it on. One thing you can do is use lube. Which is what I did, and it worked just fine. Don't feel pressured to have sex. Fun fact, lube ......   reply

Tbh I've never felt pain from putting a tampon in so I have no idea how you feel, but I have no idea how a dick would feel. I guess it depends on the size of your partner, and I think I should add that it will probably hurt at first but after a while I guess the pain fades and your mind gets filled with the thoughts of pleasure that you are feeling......   reply

Do you know how to do kegels? There's the tightening part (tighten the muscles so it feels like you're holding in your pee),relax, then a part where it feels like you're pushing (imagine pushing your muscles when you want to pee faster), then relax, repeat. 1. Buy plastic tampon applicators, they're easier to use. 2. Do the pushing part of kegels. ......   reply

You'd (hopefully) be aroused when having sex. It all softens up if you relax and gets wet. Communication is key so talk with your partner when the time comes.   reply

I still can’t put a tampon in and I’m not a virgin. It just seems like a mess to even try.   reply