The stereotypes and misinformation of yaoi; let's discuss

I read cute question where it's revealed that the user doesn't know that most of gay person prefer switching. I personally prefer bottoming, a bit submissive but I think gay couple who are strictly top x strictly bottom (never switch) is rare. In BL it's the opposite seke are rare.. so that's misleading, IMO. Anal sex is not easy wham bam thank yo......   reply

Mostly the smut scenes. Not all gay couples have an intimate action after getting to know each other with trust. Sometimes its a bit too much that never clash with reality.   reply

"Damn you so wet here" said the seme as he finger the uke ass. Ass doesnt self lubricate   1 reply

Just my take. So we have uke and seme. The thing with uke and seme should just stay in the yaoi pool. End of the discussion. We have gay couples in real life who do not have the kind of dynamics. I've heard somewhere that some fujos decided to mix in the uke and seme stuff over reality. That's just- no. No. That's their business and not yours. ......   reply

Everything. Especially rape and stuff. Of course some of them make some sense, like bathing, talking about it beforehand and aftercare, but sometimes even if they are a couple their sex just seems like a one-night-stand.   reply

Some shits can't differentiate between fiction and reality. No, actual gay people do not act like how the manga shows it, so don't ship actual gay people...   reply

I think as long as people know that the yoai community and the lgbtq+community, are two seperate things I just mainly have they have the basic exspectations that they don't endorse anything inhumane and know what they are paying with. but the main things that annoy me is when the relationship is unequal and has that rapey feel. next when they have ......   reply