Do you feel this when you are around them or just in your groupchat? You must understand that their are some substance in a persons attitude that is not reflected in most chatting application. Furthermore, chatting could never replace a physical conversation (at least for me). I have been there. I am a recent college graduate. I was the VP of a sc......   reply
12 07,2020
This happened to me and my best friend too. We started to drift apart when she made new friends, and it became awkward overtime as I tried to maintain my friendship with her when she had other people who I did not connect well with. Although our stories are different, the end result is the same: We are both drifting away from friends who we were cl......   1 reply
23 06,2020
I can relate to your experience, tho i just thought to myself that those 'friends' are somehow not the right people for you   1 reply
23 06,2020
I have can somewhat understand how your feeling. I have a bestfriend who I always hanged out with. Then when she made more friends who she has a better connection with I sort of felt left out. We tried hanging out but we just kept on drifting further away. I love hanging out with her but I never know what to say and it sort of becomes awkward. (I t......   1 reply
23 06,2020
Maybe be honest and tell them how you feel. Friends should be understanding and try their best to make sure that everyone is feeling included and cared about. See what they say/how they respond and that should help you decide if you feel like a friendship with them is worth working on or if you no longer feel that way.   1 reply
23 06,2020
Chiki
23 06,2020
so, i isolated myself from a group of friends. they're really good people, and i don't exactly dislike them, but i feel like shit and start having second thoughts whenever i spend time with them. i feel like i'm ignored but i know that's not true because what i say in the groupchat doesn't make sense to them or they just don't know what to say; and i feel really crappy whenever that happens. i don't feel a connection anymore and i just kinda drifted away. what do i do? i really don't know anymore and it's making me confused and bedridden. i feel like i'm just being overdramatic but then again it's been going on for a while. i haven't talked to them in a few months now.
23 06,2020
nana
26 04,2020
I don't think you should cut ties. Honestly, as you said, it's very normal for people to respond less as you run out of things to say or as you get busier. I'm sure she's just caught up with other things, and not just ignoring you because she doesn't like you or something. And some people are naturally not as social as others so there's no need to ......   reply
26 04,2020
Minmi 15 04,2020
I was exactly in the same situation like three days ago lol - that's funny cause I am in France, my friend and I are in the same university and the third year is abroad. Anyway, my friend was treating me the same way. Long story short we talked about it over the phone and it feels better now. I think that you don't need to see each other irl. You......   1 reply
15 04,2020
Reinhardt
15 04,2020
Hi, i might sound harsh (i hope not) and im stating the things based on my experience. You dont need to cut ties, since there's nothing to cut to begin with. In this statement, im refering on how i dont put expectation towards anything. Ppl will come and go and those who put in effort are the ones who will stay. If you alrdy talked once or thric......   1 reply
15 04,2020
Seço 09 04,2020
You said cutting of ties is weird since you guys helped each other a lot and that you already brought it up once, I think cutting of ties is not a great solution as well, you can regret it later. You should try to talk to her until it’s ok cause if not you’ll continue to feel sad and I think if you are clear enough she will understand that you�......   1 reply
09 04,2020

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