Making The First Move

Some major things to worry about are jobs and money. Moving out is very expensive so it’s best if u get a job to support yourself. You NEED money in order to pay for your food, rent, and needs. You should also surf for places that aren’t too expensive. I personally think that sharing an apartment with a friend is the best since you can split th......   reply

Group house with a few friends or someone you know from work or uni. Start discussing or thinking about where to go and start looking at real estate now to see price ranges etc. Think of some good character references to ask as you won’t have rental references. If it’s not furnished you need to think about a fridge, toaster, microwave, kett......   reply

You need to have enough savings even to accommodate in hostels. Have your student documents with you. They might provide concessions. Well, this isn't something u decide on a whim. Think carefully.   reply

If you don’t have a fully paid car and don’t have enough money to live on your own find yourself multiple roommates to spread the rent a part but to do any of this you’ll need a stable job whatever that is   reply

If she intentionally made you upset, I believe it's either (1) she wants you to be more romantic or (2) she wants to be out from your relationship.   reply

There are at least 2 possibilities. Could be that she's nervous. Or it could be that she has something more interesting to do than texting which is bad ofc. Do you guys meet irl? I suggest keeping yourself calm and ask her about it. The reason could be something unexpected so listening to her and waiting patiently is important.   reply

Have you tried telling her that she's been making you upset by not putting enough effort into the relationship?   1 reply