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With the amount of women/straight women reading bl you’d think they’re reading it because they’re both men but they don’t treat bottoms as men. Bottoms are constantly portrayed AND treated like women(in a weird caricaturistic/misogynistic way) … not to say that men that are feminine are automatically seen as women, I don’t think that’s the case much irl. I’m talking about in the bl realm. This is just something I’ve noticed a lot and I wonder if anyone else agrees or noticed the same thing. I’m always finding they’re throwing the word “slut” around for sexually active bl bottoms but rarely for bl tops. (The bottoms are usually untouched virgins too…) like it’s so weird especially since the audience is primarily female it weirds me out how people are accepting this. Like the dynamic of straight women reading bl is so weirdly interesting to me (like how some find it more acceptable men get raped in comics than women) Are women reading bl treating bl bottoms as self inserts?? Do you guys find this weird? What’s your thoughts!?

So I was reading this BL and he was licking his ear & his piercing and I was like "dayum that was hot" but I ick so hard after because that's kinda gross

coz i bet not everyone clean their ears everyday (i do to the point its bleeding but yeah most of people don't, base on my observation)

Our pet gave birth to 5 puppies on 14th Feburary and one of them isn't eating/drinking anything since the day before yesterday night. She drank a little milk and ate egg yesterday morning but nothing after. Jimmy (My pet's name), she also gave birth in 2023 but she wasn't able to feed them because of a problem. All of them died except two. But one of them was sick so, we went to a vet, they gave her injections, IV and she still died. After that, we had the same situation with our next puppy whom we picked off of the street because her mother wasn't nowhere to be found and she was highly malnourished, yet the same thing happened. I know some puppies aren't just gonna make it, the reasons can vary but I know. I already asked google, went to different vets several times in the past for the same situation. However, I still wanna ask here if someone else experienced the same thing but their puppy was able to make it alive?

Before I forget, yes, we gave the best care we could to them, a vet lives near us and they know our dog gave birth because Jimmy switches between our houses. And no, we don't wanna show her to a vet because if she still isn't gonna make it, we don't want to make her last moments painful with syringes inserted in her veins.

Any advice would be appreciated!

Okay i have the most amazing friends ever and they genuinely helped me get over things, also i learned to rely ob myself more and yadah yadah character development actually so anyways i like tried to gift them nitro but they refused to accept it and so im thinking maybe friend gift cards yk appreciation cards but i dont wanna come off as too obsessive or wtv. I just really REALLY want to express my thanks to them. Its just i love them sm for still believing in me even when all hopes seemed lost or like certain dramas- blah blah. Just generally they were so patient and understanding. Theyre so kind towards me so PLEASE how do i show my appreciation towards them if they wont accept any gift thats money-related?

I feel like people are misusing the word “toxic” when it comes to bl… you guys like ABUSIVE bl not toxic…when I think of toxic I think of two characters hating each other but wanting to fuck each other at the same time. You guys think toxic as one big muscular guy RAPING and beating on the tiny twink guy. Bitch that’s a fucking criminal…I just want two people to fight each other a little bit and then fuck like hello?? Is that too much to ask for…basically it’s an enemies to lovers type of thing with a little bit of fighting for me. But for you guys…you guys just enjoy “sexy” guys raping other tiny little helpless guys which is…certainly a thing to enjoy… BUT PLEASE STOP MISUSING TOXIC YOU LIKE ABUSIVE CRIMINAL SHIT NOT TOXIC “I hate you but you’re so sexy I wanna fuck you” SHIT. We are not the same…

im curious about some local government you guys have and see if maybe the world isnt that bad. My uni has these community projects every sem, its just voluntarily but its fun actually. This semester, we're kinda going to rural places to give some kids proper nutrition diet, like feeding programs for them for a month. We're divided into teams. Team 1 for the feeding program, team 2 for the education of these kids which where the volunteers will teach these kids how to read and do basic math finally team 3 which is focused on caretaking senior citizens. Last semester it was about helping animals. (All animals have now been adopted)

Today I have my first class of the year and so much shit happened that I want to curl up in a ball and cry

I kept seeing a different bus passing in front of my house (they don't pass by my street). I when to take the bus and yep, they were taking a detour, why? A pole fell ON TOP of the bus stop, so I had to walk FOUR blocks to the one before
fine whatever.
I get to the train station and TWO MINUTES before the train leaves a girl got caught by the other train and basically dragged throught the tracks, a whole lot of time went by and my train finally left the station and i got to uni
horrifying but at least i got here.
My friends are all caught in traffic bc apparently there was an accident close by + 2 other who also take the train but can't bc all are canceled bc of the accident
I have severe social anxiety. The first day both level 1&2 go into the same classroom, there's too many people, I'm alone, i know nobody here
I FEEL LIKE IM SUFFOCATING

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I see everyone talking about a mass ban but not explaining why?
Plz tell me I'm nosy

Did you lose female friends or your female friends started becoming distant when you came out to them?? Were they as comfortable with you as before? Is it normal to feel guilty that I'm somehow taking advantage of my female friends when they act physical (hug, touch or are comfortable in changing clothes in front of me) despite not having any sort of sexual thoughts about them? Or is this some form of internalized homophobia?

Is it rude to ask my friend not to sit or lie in my bed with their outside clothes?

I just find it awkward

rip cumquat... you made forums fun more than ever. Admins i literally sacrifice them ragebaiters but ur choosing to kill my cumquat. So many users got restricted for just trying the moving username

i just logged in and im coming back to like 45-7 ppl got restricted for some april fools update?

For me it'd definitely be Han Maru gosh hes so breedable(づ￣ ³￣)づ

https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/pocket_n_7/
please tell me no one els sees the comments spinning (it was a mistake)

Admins finally got up from their caskets this is the most active I've seen the interface of this site and I've been here for more or less 7-8yrs

I hate how like most anime/manga based communities people fight tooth and nail to defend shotacons, if fujotwt could get an award for something it would be for it's rampant misogyny, racism and pedophilia. Also the people who act like reading gay porn is an act of feminism, it's okay to just admit you find it hot you don't need to do mental gymnastics about it lol

should i order a burg?

Have anyone else here went through that? anyways for me i kinda recently went through that and ive never been so genuinely happy more than ever been before because finally idk metaphorically, the walls are gone like its just you and them and theres that just peace. Forgiveness towards one another and its just over.