This is literally just a rant you are welcome to stay but know that I am dead set on this point on view and I ultimately don't care what you have to say about it.
The fastest way for me to figure out when a user is a cisgender heterosexual is when I see them bring up these gender conforming and heteronormative bs arguments. That for me is more fetishistic than liking twinks in stories. the "I don't like feminine men and boys in BL" to "Men are invading women spaces" to transphobia to "I low key agree with some of these far right ideologies" pipeline is waayy shorter than you guys think and I'm tired of seeing you repackage literal Jordan Peterson talking points and vomiting them on here like we are not going to notice.
Poorly written characters are poorly written regardless of how they present on the gender spectrum. I will take me as an example, I HATE how meek and feminine female characters are written in Shojo and straight romance at large it makes my skin crawl because I don't see myself in them at all and they don't align with my personal vision of what femininity looks like. Do I think all feminine women in fiction are wrong and meek fl = bad character/story. No because I literally don't care how other people view gender or where they fall on that spectrum. Those stories are not for me and it is a ok. I'm literally out here fighting depression and anxiety day in and day out like I really don't give a fuck.
Do you see where I'm going with this? Gender is a SPECTRUM you guys sound like honest to god boomers trying to establish an acceptable level of masculinity that these characters should ascribe to and you keep saying "ohh but I'm fine with fem boys and twink irl" are you sure you are? because what happens often is these beliefs transfer to how you think about real people too. If you are fine with it you should be fine with it everywhere not just sometimes in some places when the sun is hitting right and they are not cross dressing.
Also consider that drag queens, non binary and trans people very much exist and they are here on this website with you and they can see you frothing at the mouth about how a man should and should not present and behave.
Should there be more diversity hell yes I want story with gender non conforming characters, I want dominant women, I want larger bodies and more people of colours and black people in my manga and manhwa. But dying on the hill of twinks are not ok in BL is not only dumb it really shouldn't be your priority we've got bigger fish to fry.
That's it bye
The fastest way for me to figure out when a user is a cisgender heterosexual is when I see them bring up these gender conforming and heteronormative bs arguments. That for me is more fetishistic than liking twinks in stories. the "I don't like feminine men and boys in BL" to "Men are invading women spaces" to transphobia to "I low key agree with some of these far right ideologies" pipeline is waayy shorter than you guys think and I'm tired of seeing you repackage literal Jordan Peterson talking points and vomiting them on here like we are not going to notice.
Poorly written characters are poorly written regardless of how they present on the gender spectrum. I will take me as an example, I HATE how meek and feminine female characters are written in Shojo and straight romance at large it makes my skin crawl because I don't see myself in them at all and they don't align with my personal vision of what femininity looks like. Do I think all feminine women in fiction are wrong and meek fl = bad character/story. No because I literally don't care how other people view gender or where they fall on that spectrum. Those stories are not for me and it is a ok. I'm literally out here fighting depression and anxiety day in and day out like I really don't give a fuck.
Do you see where I'm going with this? Gender is a SPECTRUM you guys sound like honest to god boomers trying to establish an acceptable level of masculinity that these characters should ascribe to and you keep saying "ohh but I'm fine with fem boys and twink irl" are you sure you are? because what happens often is these beliefs transfer to how you think about real people too. If you are fine with it you should be fine with it everywhere not just sometimes in some places when the sun is hitting right and they are not cross dressing.
Also consider that drag queens, non binary and trans people very much exist and they are here on this website with you and they can see you frothing at the mouth about how a man should and should not present and behave.
Should there be more diversity hell yes I want story with gender non conforming characters, I want dominant women, I want larger bodies and more people of colours and black people in my manga and manhwa. But dying on the hill of twinks are not ok in BL is not only dumb it really shouldn't be your priority we've got bigger fish to fry.
That's it bye
I was just reading a manhwa about the mc(female) needing to cross dress to survive. And then couple of chapters has passed and male characters falls for their male persona. So now I'm wondering if other people consider those male characters who have fallen for them as gay since they fell for them when they thought the mc was a man or still straight since they're actually a girl.
Personally I consider them bisexual/pan/omni or something along those cause even tho the mc is indeed a girl they still fell for them thinking they were a man.
What do you guys think?
Personally I consider them bisexual/pan/omni or something along those cause even tho the mc is indeed a girl they still fell for them thinking they were a man.
What do you guys think?
Cat ran out the door a few days ago but came back smelling like feminine body wash products and now his brother who is becoming of age is trying to mate with him (⇀‸↼;) what must I do to fix this pls TT
just found out this existed. i thought these were just random comments that had lost their way. been using this site for years and still dont know hot to work the ui pls help
I might’ve maybe accidentally almost moaned when she put her fingers in but that’s unrelated
The physical therapy the doctor mentioned after is also mostly internal, like huh? It hurt when you put two fingers in so you want me to put more things in?? You want me to go to physical therapy so they can put a VIBRATING WAND INSIDE MY VAJAJAY?? I didn’t know government insurance covered lesbian escort services these days!!!
Fuck this man it’s been a day and my hip still hurts. I feel like I got stabbed in the ovary
The physical therapy the doctor mentioned after is also mostly internal, like huh? It hurt when you put two fingers in so you want me to put more things in?? You want me to go to physical therapy so they can put a VIBRATING WAND INSIDE MY VAJAJAY?? I didn’t know government insurance covered lesbian escort services these days!!!
Fuck this man it’s been a day and my hip still hurts. I feel like I got stabbed in the ovary
Anyone doesn't know what rule 34 is it's if something exists in real life, or is made up, there will be a pornographic depiction of it
Compared to now, did you outgrow them? Changed preferences? Or liked it more than ever?
For me i started soooo badly when i first got exposed to bl. It was fine with given until I read this manga called dakaretai otoko smth smth.
That absolutely demolished my way of thinking because at the time, i didnt even know wtf raped meant, and how it worked. So that was the shit i got obsessed with for a while, and i started seeking out similar shit like painter of the night, caste heaven achuchu.
Then my friends indirectly educated me then I immediately got SO disgusted with those tropes. I got disgusted at bl and even myself for quite some time. Guilt kept eating me up each day. Years later I picked bl up again and it just wasnt the same anymore, i cant stand the sex scenes either so i skip it. And even if its a referenced, single panel, thought of SA attempt, it cringes me so bad like what a massive turn off. Tho there are a few that i love like sasaki to miyano
And this was after i came across gl so ig my obsession went somewhere else
For me i started soooo badly when i first got exposed to bl. It was fine with given until I read this manga called dakaretai otoko smth smth.
That absolutely demolished my way of thinking because at the time, i didnt even know wtf raped meant, and how it worked. So that was the shit i got obsessed with for a while, and i started seeking out similar shit like painter of the night, caste heaven achuchu.
Then my friends indirectly educated me then I immediately got SO disgusted with those tropes. I got disgusted at bl and even myself for quite some time. Guilt kept eating me up each day. Years later I picked bl up again and it just wasnt the same anymore, i cant stand the sex scenes either so i skip it. And even if its a referenced, single panel, thought of SA attempt, it cringes me so bad like what a massive turn off. Tho there are a few that i love like sasaki to miyano
And this was after i came across gl so ig my obsession went somewhere else
I hate white ppl especially their dumbass mayonnaise FUCK U I’ll spit on any white person I see cz I HATE them FUCK U shove ur casserole up ur ass
As an older kpop fan it is very noticeable how much kpop has changed and that it gained a lot of western features. I see a lot of debates online that kpop is losing the k and the changes are not welcomed by most fans, but lots of people are saying that it's totally fine how something evolves with time. What side u on?
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not to brag kahahha but people often told me my voice was calming and it comforted them theyre suprised because i can change my speaking voice to like masc im curious if some of you are singers here ^_^
Ok I actually don't, I love her more than anyone but gawd she is so annoying sometimes, how do I deal with her seperation anxiety, she doesn't eat properly, acts crazy whenever I'm not the one feeding her bro I think I've spoiled her a bit too much. Idk how she'll be able to able to handle it when I'm off to college and will only see in on holidays because she can't even go a day without me. My mom isn't fond of animals so she clearly hasn't bonded with her and dad is barely home. We had a house caretaker that my dog used to love but he retired and we got a new one but that woman is terrified of my dog, and my dog hates her too. If I'm away for one day there's no one to properly give my dog attention and I feel bad that I should've not adopted her, she's super high maintenance (4 year old GSD, who has her own room, play area, entire shower routine, is a picky eater, will kill you if you don't give her belly rubs), so I can't really give her away to friends because Ik no one will be able to take care of her and spend that much money on her like I do. It's not like I can sneak her into college dorms either she is huge
Not a comic but a choices game where mc is on a spaceship and an ai robot is obsessed with her , there are some blue aliens too. Pleaseeee help Mr find it I'm going to die fr
This is not a serious question btw don't tell me about your beliefs in scientology
i’ll go 1st i fw anybody masculine, gender doesnt matter to me I LOVE MY MASCULINE MEN AND WOMEN IDGAF
