you want your kids to learn, not be afraid of you. should a kid be smacked for spilling a cup of juice? no. the parent should teach them the consequences of spilling the juice, say, it stained something. teach them to clean it up. a sobbing child isn't going to learn how to fix spilled juice, but they're going to be terrified of doing so. if they m......   reply
25 05,2021
Nye
25 05,2021
Pride months coming up, and I’m not excited. The Lgbtq+ community is so horrible I can not describe how much I hate it and it’s pride month. The amount of racism in that community is abysmal, but when that dumb ass month roles around, everyone acts like this community is such an accepting and wonderful place. Like the amount of black people I......   4 reply
25 05,2021
I have seen multiple stances on this issue. Some claim that physical discipline should not be shunned as a part of someone's parenting style. They claim that they were hit as a child and turned out fine since it fixed their behavior; therefore, this kind of parenting is a cycle. If your parents hit you as a child, you are more likely to do the same to your own child.
On the other hand, others claim that it is a toxic way of parenting, hurts the child, damages the parent-child relationship, does not fix behavior, and instead may promote a cycle of bad parenting. Many psychologists and developmental experts claim that spanking and hitting is a more outdated way of punishment, makes the child more likely to experience stress and anxiety, and makes children fear their parents by conditioning them. There is a saying, "Strict parents have the sneakiest children."
Those whose views lay in the middle claim that there is a line between discipline and abuse, such as hitting too hard or the parent hitting out of anger is dangerous and abuse. They do not see a problem with a few hits if the child's behavior is too bad. However, people who disagree with physically disciplining your child should not be the first option that parents turn to. A parenting style that sets rules but explains to the child why their behavior is wrong or allow input is more likely to be effective. Understanding the root of their behavior and addressing mental health issues in children are important.
What is your view on this issue?
25 05,2021
When I was 5 / 6 years old a robber broke into my house while I was sleeping. So for context, I was sleeping on my parents bed that day but they had left for work earlier, and my cousin who was to take care of me hadn’t arrived home yet. I was basically on my own. So I wake up and there’s this unknown guy messing in my parents wardrobe and all......   reply
25 05,2021
PETS!!!! [Question]
JASPER 25 05,2021
Discord to talk, hang out, and post pet pics
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25 05,2021
A few years ago. Me and my family rented a house near the border of Canada for a yearly family vacation trip. We decided to go to the Asian night market in Canada. On our way to the border my cousin realizes "Oh shit, I forgot our passports" my uncle without missing a beat. Unlocks the car and makes a run for it (away from the border also yes the c......   reply
25 05,2021
How do u look? [Answer]
Alternative_Account
25 05,2021
The look I want The look I have And yes, I have a resting b**ch face, and yes I know no one is asking.   reply
25 05,2021
uh a guy commited suicide with a gas tank, and a tube from it leading to his nose. Basically the tube came out of his nose after he died and gassed the airport he was in and long story short everyone died lmao   reply
25 05,2021
so basically I go to bed and have a super weird dream were I was kidnapped by someone in red and brought somewhere in space right but when I woke up it wasn't a dream and- wait what was that.. I hear singing in the distance... it's getting closer... I think they're saying...... AMONG US IN REAL LIFE SUS SUS   reply
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Quinn_Q 25 05,2021
I HATE, ABSOLUTELY HATE IT when someone starts getting loud over literally nothing. I dont live with my father and i ALWAYS offer to do house work and one time didn't wash the dishes he got mad and started yelling about ungreatful I am. LIKE DANM STFU you could have just asked my to do the dishes aint no reason to get loud. At this point I just lau......   2 reply
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