Falling Inlove

what's annoying is when they expect you to agree to go out with them and then a bunch of his friends come to tell you how horrible you are for not giving him a chance especially; when you live in a country where they don't acknowledge gay people exist and you can't tell them that you can't give him a chance because you are gay.   reply

Cuz they don't own anyone anything for someone liking them Just because you confessed doesn't mean you're entitled for anything more than a rejection   reply

Maybe because of experience, some may think they're just "love bombing" them   reply

I think its a preference thing and also a personal thing, and sometimes it might end up burning them out if the other person likes them "too much" Also the same can go for the other gender as well, I think its weird that you use a certain gender with something that can be said for most if not all people...   reply

If someone is too forward, it's very jarring. If we haven't really gotten to know each other yet, it's uncomfortable that this person, boy or girl, is taking it too seriously. Often times it feels like they don't really actually like me, since I don't really think they know me that well. I could ramble off a bunch of reasons, but the biggest reason......   reply

I don't think so girl rejects boys on this bases. If someone Liking you too much in a short amount of time looks scary. It's not a gender thing.   reply

avoidant attachment style :)   reply

It’s not really a gender thing tbh, but more of a “slow your roll there pal.” Some people aren’t ready to digest someone who loves/likes them when they don’t even love themselves nor love/like that same person. Love is as much of a strong 4 lettered word as hate. Sometimes it takes a LONG time for people to finally warm up to someone’s ......   reply

It can feel intimidating if someone likes you way more than you like them, even in platonic relationships. I say this as a woman who has scared people off by being too affectionate and clingy. Another possibility is that they have so low self-esteem that they, sadly, find it creepy that someone would like them that much. I say this from experience ......   reply

Its human tendency to underestimate the things which are easily available to them. So ye Both men and women does this.   reply