Loving Someone

This will be a tough decision but how badly do they want to force you to get married? You are free the moment you choose to be if you don't want to get married don't.   reply

Are you sure it is not platonic/aesthetic love? I am a Asexual guy and I platonically love my guy best friend to death. There have also been woman that I found were pretty and cute that I loved platonically as well. None of these things mean that I want a exclusive sexual relationship with them though. Even though countless times my feelings and......   1 reply

What you have is a really strong friendship. I have a similar friendship except we are both guys and I am asexual so I never considered him as a lover, but I do love him very much and consider him family. At one point we did take a break because his wife got jealous of our close relationship and she feels like a third wheel whenever we all hangout ......   reply

I think you should learn to love yourself, cause you're the most important person in the own life. Who cares if others don't love you the way you live them? It's their problem, not yours. I'm sure you'll find the one who loves you very much in the future, best wishes!!   1 reply