Fellow pansexual here. It's 2018. I have other things to get uncomfortable with than two guys or girls, or other gender-identifications getting affectionate in public. Love the hell out of each other, that's great. The world has enough problems and love, no matter between whom, never really hurt somebody. 10/10 would support.   reply
24 04,2018
I was raised to accept everyone, no matter color, size, sexuality, personality, etc. As well as having a few gays and lesbians in my family, I see people who love who they want as very beautiful and very brave. I have two friends that live next door to me, who are in a homosexual relationship, they are quite open about it and take no shit from any......   reply
24 04,2018
The thing is, yaoi is fiction and usually doesn't represent what a real gay relationship is like. A lot of gay men have seen yaoi and have been disgusted by it. They're actually really annoyed with yaoi and the false information it gives about being gay, and they're also frustrated with all the fujoshi that go around shipping boys together. While i......   reply
24 04,2018
Hi! I’m a female aromantic asexual and I personally love BL. Reading smut was actually what helped me realize that I was asexual because I could never really understand why someone would want to have sex. But I love shoujo, shoujo ai, and shounen ai. I feel like I am able to live through those characters because I personally don’t experience a ......   1 reply
24 04,2018
to be honest, I'm fine with a same-sex couple and never had an issue with them (as long they aren't going overboard on pda and that goes with whatever couple you are) but I can't stand yaoi. I find it annoying since most girls fetishize it here, to the point they drool/freak out over real-life gay couple or force non-yaoi anime/manga to have yaoi.   reply
24 04,2018
As a female-ace, BL is nice because it gives more options than fluffy het or super hard core het. Only reading Shoujo or Ecchi builds an unrealistic representation of what a relationship entails, and what should be expected of your partner and of yourself. It also can emphasis a "what's wrong with me" feeling if you cannot relate to the common them......   reply
24 04,2018
I'm the type to live and let live. My point being, in general PDAs make me uncomfortable, regardless of the genders involved. That being said, people are free to love however and whomever they want.   2 reply
24 04,2018
Ahh.. Well this can be sort of a complicated question for me. ^^; Although I am apart of the LGBT community I don't know if it would so much as actually have harmful effects on my personality unless you looked at it from a "normal" persons' perspective I suppose? Sorry to go on.. But since before I had realized what the questioning of my sexuality ......   2 reply
24 04,2018
I'm asexual and I know some people do not think asexuals fall into the LGBT spectrum, but I still want to give my two cents regarding your questions. The only smut I read is shonen-ai/yaoi. I'll sometimes read/watch hetero hentai, but my go-to overwhelmingly is yaoi. Honestly I don't feel that my enjoyment of yaoi in anyway affects my personal ph......   reply
24 04,2018
Some Q's for LGBTQ+ [Question]
NaverGirl 24 04,2018
Hi I'm just a newbie here. I have some questions to asked especially for gay people out there since I'm new to lgbt group. It started this year when I found myself reading BL mangas and watching movies and series. I myself am homophobic person in the pasts years which I have a lesbian friend and a bisexual friend and I kinda feel guilty from being a sexist person. I know I'm such an ass that time when she confessed to me about her sexuality. Since Im the only straight girl in our group of 3, I'm the last one who knows since they're scared of me finding it. At first I'm mad because they're keeping me in dark and I have a lot of questions in my mind.

And when I started reading bl I gradually understand their struggles in life. And I asked my friend if they're doing sex and I'm confused on how they do it. I asked a lot of questions which pissed her off. Some lgbt says some yaois and yuris are not realistic so I asked if how they do it?

Is it they asked their partners who's on top and who's the bottom? Did they researched first before they do it or just let the love flow? I wanna know so that I can't offend anyone by asking this irl.
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