Being Gay

From one pansexual to another, I don't think just because you read BL means that you know more about the "gay world" than they do. Thing about BL is that usually it's either fetishized or it's just a fantasy. Being gay, confessing your feelings, and being in a relationship just doesn't actually work that way in the real world. This is also from per......   reply

i dont even care, im bisexual and only go out with lgbt people (all my friends are lgbt too), its so fucking normal to me that when i see straight people kissing i got triggered   2 reply

I once saw a kiss between a gay couple and thought it was really cute, because they weren't afraid to show their affect and it wasn't a disgusting french kiss that hetero couples do when they're horny ( it just freaks me out when couples kiss like that .... Like stop and get a room ffs) but it was rather a cute kiss, a little tongue in it, but wi......   1 reply

Well, my heart does react a lot when reading yaoi like "oh they're so cute" "oh no don't break his heart" and things like that but in reality I don't really care about gays (or lesbian). I mean I do absolutely defend their right but they're just like any other common couple (hetero, lesbian o gay) fading into the background-   reply

uh just gonna say that yaoi is /fictional/ and a lot of it doesn't reflect how real gay relationships work. so i don't think the two should be compared? but if you're just asking for an opinion on homosexual relationships, i think it's great and lovely.   1 reply

You don't know shit about the gay world from reading yaoi.   3 reply

i used to crush so hard on almost all the girls in my 8th grade class, especially this one girl, whenever she came close to me i got this really tingly feeling lol, but didnt really think about it that much at the time. around my preteen years i didnt think about how loving people of the same gender was considered "wrong" to lots of people around m......   1 reply

I was about 8 when I realized that I looked at girls in much the same way I looked at boys. In case it's not obvious, I'm bi. I was raised by my brother, who is gay, and his friends and lovers. So, I was surrounded by same sex couples, mostly male but there were some female couples as well, my entire life. This helped me accept, easily, the idea th......   2 reply

Well, I tend to meet them regularly so not anything special, But I asked my sister this question so here's her answer: "It's normal, I don't think anything special of it. I do think that person reads too much manga though, cause they obviously think that manga is a correct portrayal of the gay world. Crush their dream, cause it's not. Feel embarra......   reply

It's fucking horrible living in such a homophobic country with damn homophobic parents. I have to keep making fun of gays on tv to be a good child to my mother. And then, when I like someone, they never think of me more than a friend. I might be the one to blame in that but how can I trust the person I like? Even if they aren't homophobic I just ha......   1 reply