Become Fujoshi Or Fundashi

That actually depends on the peeps doe,because for me the reason why read yaoi is because...I got tired of the typical shoujo's the girl and boy meet for the first time and under some kind of stuff they suddenly in love yada yada yada I got pretty tired of it so yaoi opened it's doors for me but at least I know how to draw the line between reality ......   reply

Well in my case it works out bc I don't like girls in general, neither in shoujo nor in real life (in most cases) I just never understand why the guy would fall for the girl and even if the girl has a strong personality, then again I don't think girls look good at all.... So two boys that I like liking each other? Fuking YEES. And btw I don't like ......   reply

Well, that's not always the case. I am aware that some (if not, most) of yaoi mangas portray unrealistic interaction between men that sometimes borderline female interaction. And I enjoy yaoi mainly because I've grown not to like most girls/women in shoujo mangas (no offense), and simply because some BL stories are just fascinating. It really depen......   reply

I became a fujoshi after I saw the term "yaoi" in a ad so I looked it up. I then thought that I should try it. I also decided to try yuri as well. If I hadn't discovered these I wouldn't have discovered my true self. I am now much more accepting of my sexuality because I learned with the help of yaoi and yuri that it was ok. Sure the males in yaoi ......   1 reply

im not gonna justify myself. we fujoshi are rotten garbage. >:T   reply

Speaking as a bi dude, you have to realize that you do have an obsession with a media that tends to almost always represents us as completely ignorant of consent, hyper-conforming to weird heterosexual gender roles in regards to personality, behavior, and bedroom activity. When that stuff plays into how you see men in real life and start telling gu......   reply

Personally I’m not entirely sure If I fetishize gay men in real life, rarely I may be bored in line some where and see a guy with an ideal back or dress nicely and would wonder if he’d make a good seme, uke or reversible. So it’s sort of men in general, we ladies like men. I don’t go to watch actual gay porn sites, I also don’t judge an......   2 reply

The thing is with your question, it generalizes every person that reads yaoi and that is not correct. While I agree that there are fujoshi/fudanshi who read yaoi objectify gay men, there are also people who read yaoi for the enjoyment of the genre and stick to just fangiringl/boying the manga itself. Being of the latter myself, my feelings when I r......   reply

Not all but many unfortunately do. Over the years I've seen multipleeeee comments from Fujoshis where they blatantly fetishize actual gay men. What ticks me off the most is how much the Yaoi industry seems to shun actual gay/bi men. It often exploits m/m relationships while paying no mind to actual gay/bi men. I mean there is always Bara manga whic......   4 reply