I don’t know if I’m bi or straight, I had about 5 Sex dreams About the same sex But honestly I see my self getting with a boy in the future but Sometimes i see my self with a girl And there is sometimes where I feel like I’m a lesbian and there are times where I feel like I’m bi I really don’t know Damn man this shit is confusing
so I'm open to any gender whatever is there to exist as long it's a human but I don't see myself getting married to a man and having kids but if it's a girl I cry imagining it cause I absolutely love the idea that but with a man no I can still have relationship with men but not in a form of marriage or spending rest of my life with them lmao.
and how can you tell the difference between admiration/aesthetic attraction and actual attraction?
i’ve always believed i was straight but lately i’ve been questioning myself... i’ve had like 3 sex dreams about the same sex and i’ve experienced a bit of sexual attraction to girls too. i’ve actually entertained the idea of dating/kissing my ex friend before (though i’m not sure if that was caused by actual attraction or jealousy) and i’ve always thought my friend was really pretty.
buuut i’ve never had a big crush on a girl, only guys and it’s hard for me to imagine dating someone of the same sex. sometimes it’s hard to differentiate between a squish (a platonic crush) and an actual crush.
i’ve had sex fantasies of the same sex before and i probably wouldn’t mind getting it on with them irl. for the most part though i simp for guys but there are rare occasions where i’ll simp for a girl
my growing self awareness of all this has made me notice girls even MORE and now i cannot go out without seeing a girl and thinking about how pretty they look...
i keep doubting myself though. what if i’m actually straight and this was just so i could fit in with my other lgbt friends? what if i’m just trying to trick myself into thinking i’m bi and i just like girls aesthetically?
TLDR; i’ve experienced attraction to the same sex before but i’m not 100% sure if it means i am bi
i’ve always believed i was straight but lately i’ve been questioning myself... i’ve had like 3 sex dreams about the same sex and i’ve experienced a bit of sexual attraction to girls too. i’ve actually entertained the idea of dating/kissing my ex friend before (though i’m not sure if that was caused by actual attraction or jealousy) and i’ve always thought my friend was really pretty.
buuut i’ve never had a big crush on a girl, only guys and it’s hard for me to imagine dating someone of the same sex. sometimes it’s hard to differentiate between a squish (a platonic crush) and an actual crush.
i’ve had sex fantasies of the same sex before and i probably wouldn’t mind getting it on with them irl. for the most part though i simp for guys but there are rare occasions where i’ll simp for a girl
my growing self awareness of all this has made me notice girls even MORE and now i cannot go out without seeing a girl and thinking about how pretty they look...
i keep doubting myself though. what if i’m actually straight and this was just so i could fit in with my other lgbt friends? what if i’m just trying to trick myself into thinking i’m bi and i just like girls aesthetically?
TLDR; i’ve experienced attraction to the same sex before but i’m not 100% sure if it means i am bi
kay so I'm 14 and I've never felt sexually attracted to anyone. I've had 2 crushes but only in a romantic way. I'd like hugging and being physically close with someone I'm dating but sex doesn't interest me in the slightest. I wonder if it's because I'm too young but other kids my age seem to be able to feel sexually attracted to others. Am I just young and overthinking it? I feel embarrassed to post this but it's been nagging my mind for a while -n-
Okay, I’ve classified myself as a “fujoshi” for most of my days of reading bl, and I thought my interest in bl/mlm was becoming fetish-like. I’m between bi and pan rn (never dated so-) and I thought that’s why I always imagine myself as a dude getting it on with another dude. HOWEVER (here’s the kicker) for the first time I clearly thought to myself while looking at a panel of a uke being cute “I wish I had a peen so I could...ya know” etc etc. I mean having one biologically attached to my body. And then everything fell into place:
- I already get misgendered ( because of my deep voice) and baggy clothes combo, but I’ve never really cared, in fact I didn’t dislike or feel off put by it ever
-a lot of days I think “I wish I had a male -like body” but there’s this weird debate in my mind cause I also love my female body as it is.
- but the reason I can’t bring myself to a conclusion is because I feel that I may just have a prolonged liking to bl that spurred these thoughts, rather than me actually being gender fluid.
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- I already get misgendered ( because of my deep voice) and baggy clothes combo, but I’ve never really cared, in fact I didn’t dislike or feel off put by it ever
-a lot of days I think “I wish I had a male -like body” but there’s this weird debate in my mind cause I also love my female body as it is.
- but the reason I can’t bring myself to a conclusion is because I feel that I may just have a prolonged liking to bl that spurred these thoughts, rather than me actually being gender fluid.
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Times were you feel like your the stupidest insect on earth(￣∇￣")
why are there so many sexuality questioners rn, but hello fellow queer folk lol
So like. I like girls and guys... but i cant imagine havin a girl as a wife, I can imagine having a girlfriend... but like. not permanent. Idk if its some homophobic shit that I have to unlearn or I'm just not bi or sumthin. Helpp
Well.. its so weird for me to talk about it, but since theres no one in my real life who i can ask advice, ill ask here. Hmm.. how can i start. I was attracted to women and man both sexually and emotional. I had my first kiss with boy, whom i liked since 8th grade, but he was type of the boy who only cares about what others will say and since im not than popular xd he was like we can kiss and anything but we cant be together. I hate that type of people so automattycaly i started to dislike this person too. He was player. This summer i meet one girl online. We were talking all days long.. she was so nice omfg.. i realised i started to like her.. she confess to me after 3 months.. god, i was so in love with her. My head was full of her. I wanted to talk only about her and with her. But we ended in bad terms for some reasons.. i was so depressed back then and i only wanted her again. I was addicted. But last month i found out that my friend likes me for so long.. we started talking, flirting.. and i caught myself thinking about dating her.. i think i like her but im more attracted to her emotionally. Now i dont know wat to do and think. Maybe iam lesbian or be or pan i have no idea..(⊙…⊙ )
Okay so I definitely label myself as straight because I’m sexually and emotionally attracted to guys. However, when I see a beautiful girl I’m like, “wow she’s sooo pretty” and/or if I see a masculine girl (dress like a tomboy?) I think she’s handsome/hot. But I’m not sexually attracted to a girl... for instance I don’t read or watch GL, and I can’t imagine myself doing anything with a girl. Another thing is that when I see a girl cosplayer cosplaying as a male character, I drool over them. And I remember someone commenting on it’s post saying “if you think she’s hot, you’re bisexual”. Sooo that made me think, ‘am I bi curious? Or am I just appreciating their aesthetic and the way they look.?’ Like what would define someone as bisexual. Do I have to be sexually attracted to both genders to be considered bi sexual? And I know, I don’t need to ‘label’ myself with either or. But I’m just confused oml
I'm 18yo btw and... I have been confused abt my sexuality for past few months. I'm pretty sure I'm straight. I mean i have always liked boys till now but not to the point of dating them.
Umm... is it normal if u think ur friend is actually like hot and u wouldnt mind kissing her or anything and like its like u can be fine havng sex with her?
Also, I've realized when i was in all girls middle school i was kinda curious abt this girl cus she looked a little boyish. 1 of my frnd caught me staring at her and teased me abt liking her, it scared so much that I just started repeating- she's a girl... she's a girl in my head lol.( I didnt know abt gay/lesbians).
But now i have realized that i wouldnt mind dating them?
but like in the past i was crushing really hard on this guy almost like for 2 yrs (didn't feel like that towards a girl)
Is it cus i've read too many yaoi/yuri? (which i just started reading for the past 9-10 months) idk
I am also not grossed out by lesbian porn or anthing but not sexually aroused either same w/ str8 porn.
Is this bcus of my hatred towards men? (idk if its make sense but yeah).
But like.. I have fantasized about having sex with both genders.
I also took up a quiz it said I am fluid hetero?
So am I like st8 but can also like girls now?
Umm... is it normal if u think ur friend is actually like hot and u wouldnt mind kissing her or anything and like its like u can be fine havng sex with her?
Also, I've realized when i was in all girls middle school i was kinda curious abt this girl cus she looked a little boyish. 1 of my frnd caught me staring at her and teased me abt liking her, it scared so much that I just started repeating- she's a girl... she's a girl in my head lol.( I didnt know abt gay/lesbians).
But now i have realized that i wouldnt mind dating them?
but like in the past i was crushing really hard on this guy almost like for 2 yrs (didn't feel like that towards a girl)
Is it cus i've read too many yaoi/yuri? (which i just started reading for the past 9-10 months) idk
I am also not grossed out by lesbian porn or anthing but not sexually aroused either same w/ str8 porn.
Is this bcus of my hatred towards men? (idk if its make sense but yeah).
But like.. I have fantasized about having sex with both genders.
I also took up a quiz it said I am fluid hetero?
So am I like st8 but can also like girls now?