Not Having A Boyfriend

I gave up on loving someone too, like you, I think I'm ugly, and not only that but a shitty hypocrite, everyone thinks I'm sweet and happy, but that's just a mask so other people can "tolerate me" , because if I showed my true colors, I would be doomed lol ,and I'm awkward af with boys so that's another reason people avoid me. Well whatever, Don'......   2 reply
16 09,2017
I don't know if it is weird or not, I can only tell you that I'm the same. I'll turn 22 this year and never had a boyfriend. Of course I don't want one just to have one, I really would like to find someone who can accept me with my flaws and still want to be with me but since I'm not very social nor very pretty I guess it won' be easy finding that ......   2 reply
16 09,2017
It depends on the person. I'm quite older than you are right now. In my case I spend most of my teen years thinking I might be broken ( had trouble talking to guys) and had like 1 or 2 male friends. Once I hit college it got a little better, but that was when I also figured out that I didn't really want to date. My initial " want" was to fit in, n......   2 reply
16 09,2017
Short answer: no. Long answer: your self-image seems very painful, and for the sake of your happiness (which has nothing to do with whether you are or aren't in a relationship), I hope you find ways to reconcile your reflection with your ideal. I suspect your self-reflection is too harsh and your ideals are somewhat, if not wholly, out of reach, ......   4 reply
16 09,2017
Nope. It's not weird. I'm also 22 and never have been in a relationship. Actually my group of friends are all nbsb too. It's awesome. It's just that you still haven't found the right one. While there's me who doesnt want to have anything to do with reationships. Seriously.   2 reply
16 09,2017
Sweety, what are you saying? You are not ugly, nobody is. Nobody is either beautiful. It's just that people have preferences usually according to what society and the media impose. Sounds cliché, I know, but your beauty is on the inside and in your abilities. According to your main question, I'm also 22 and I've never dated anyone. When I was a te......   6 reply
16 09,2017
i don't think it's weird, then again i am 30 years old and never been in a relationship. it was and is by choice, though. i prefer to read about it rather than experience it, lol.   reply
16 09,2017
I'm 25 years old and I have had one meaning full romantic relationship in my life, when I was 23-24. It lasted a whole year and I can say it ended because I didn't believe he deserved me. I think I'm ugly and that my personality must be worse because I have no friends but he would tell me everyday how he felt about me and how he thought I was beaut......   1 reply
15 09,2017
I am 24 y/o (will be 25 in 2 months) and i never have a boyfriend but yeah i have experienced love, one-sided love from my side to be exact. And because of so many one-sided loves, i have became tired of feeling in love with someone else and decided to not falling in love with anyone. Seriously, being in love is mentally and physically tiring, i pr......   reply
15 09,2017
Im 22 as well and I've never been in love or had a boyfriend. I have kissed and gone on dates though- It's gross to me so I dont think you're missing out on much :P And I think asking if It's "normal" is where you're going wrong...It's "normal" for me not to have ever been in love or have a BF because I'm asexual and if you have never ever been att......   1 reply
15 09,2017

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