What's the firs thing you read on this site? The firs thing I read was- Oh! My Assistant ╮(￣▽￣)╭
I just realized today that I joined this site in 2018. Damn it has been 7 years. I have been on this site almost everyday for the last 7 years!!! That is really crazy. God bless to the creators of this site. You literally were there for a big chunk of my life. Cheers to 7 more years
I know this is a manga site, but I’ve been here for years, and I’ve seen how there are really wise people here. So please, help this girl out.
There’s this guy courting me, and I really love him. But sometimes, I get sad or even cry because he doesn’t update me, not even for a minute. Sometimes, we don’t talk the whole day because he’s not in the mood, and he won’t reply, which I try to understand. But in the first two months, he wasn’t like this.
We’re in a long-distance relationship. Before we met, we’d call for hours, and he’d always reply so fast, updating me without me even asking. But after we finally saw each other, and I went back home, 14 hours away, things changed. I visited him again in December and January, and even surprised him this February because I’m the kind of girl who would go to great lengths for love. I don’t believe in loving with conditions.
But lately, I’ve been crying. When I ask why he doesn’t update me anymore, he says I make small things a big deal. But back then, he used to care about these things, he’d even get mad if I didn’t update him. It makes me wonder if he’s still courting me.
Every afternoon, he just plays video games, then at night, he tells me not to sleep yet so we can say goodnight. Last night, I stayed up late because I had schoolwork. He only replied at 4 AM, after playing the whole afternoon and night, just to say goodnight. He promised he’d update me, even just a single text, but he didn’t. He forgot about me. And when I told him I was mad, he said he’s doing this because he misses me, so he avoids talking to me and keeps himself busy instead.
When I ask if he’s still interested, he says he is and that he loves me. But sometimes, it feels like it’s just words, not actions. I just want to understand what he really wants. I don’t want to be the girl I was before, the one in a two-year relationship where she was taken advantage of because she stayed quiet about things like this. That’s why I always try to communicate now.
But I don’t know... does he still want to court me? Or am I holding on to something that’s already fading? I know I’m inexperienced, and I’ve been through ups and downs, but I just want to know, should love feel like this? Should it make me question whether I’m wanted? What should I say or do? I’d really appreciate any advice. Please be kind.
There’s this guy courting me, and I really love him. But sometimes, I get sad or even cry because he doesn’t update me, not even for a minute. Sometimes, we don’t talk the whole day because he’s not in the mood, and he won’t reply, which I try to understand. But in the first two months, he wasn’t like this.
We’re in a long-distance relationship. Before we met, we’d call for hours, and he’d always reply so fast, updating me without me even asking. But after we finally saw each other, and I went back home, 14 hours away, things changed. I visited him again in December and January, and even surprised him this February because I’m the kind of girl who would go to great lengths for love. I don’t believe in loving with conditions.
But lately, I’ve been crying. When I ask why he doesn’t update me anymore, he says I make small things a big deal. But back then, he used to care about these things, he’d even get mad if I didn’t update him. It makes me wonder if he’s still courting me.
Every afternoon, he just plays video games, then at night, he tells me not to sleep yet so we can say goodnight. Last night, I stayed up late because I had schoolwork. He only replied at 4 AM, after playing the whole afternoon and night, just to say goodnight. He promised he’d update me, even just a single text, but he didn’t. He forgot about me. And when I told him I was mad, he said he’s doing this because he misses me, so he avoids talking to me and keeps himself busy instead.
When I ask if he’s still interested, he says he is and that he loves me. But sometimes, it feels like it’s just words, not actions. I just want to understand what he really wants. I don’t want to be the girl I was before, the one in a two-year relationship where she was taken advantage of because she stayed quiet about things like this. That’s why I always try to communicate now.
But I don’t know... does he still want to court me? Or am I holding on to something that’s already fading? I know I’m inexperienced, and I’ve been through ups and downs, but I just want to know, should love feel like this? Should it make me question whether I’m wanted? What should I say or do? I’d really appreciate any advice. Please be kind.
The moment i got home after running away for one day, my life has become even more hell, they keep questioning me without even understanding me kept asking why took a selfish decision, the mother won't even thing about the fact that maybe my daughter might need time? They don't even give me time , they kept saying I didn't even think of them and how i humiliated everyone , that things are going to be worse now. I hate it i hate it i hate it ihate it ihate it please i should have died. Someone just help me . How can I die. Please.....
It's about a buff guy who trains masochists to be auctioned off to people. But the buff guy is jealous and wants to be domed also. When he was actioning off someone, he caught the eye of someone using binoculars, this person thought of the buff guy as a big dog and wants to buy him.
That's all I remember, please help me find it. ┗( T﹏T )┛
That's all I remember, please help me find it. ┗( T﹏T )┛
Here’s two, make both of yourselves I wanna see the difference
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What are things you guys hate/dislike about the manhwa Tears on a Withered Flower that other people agree with (p.s. I’m not hating) but me personally I hate how some people infantilize Haesoo like that’s not a grown ass woman
Hi, I'm a 18 year old trans man in the USA, I live in a blue state but in a red county and I'm currently in my second semester of college for early childhood education. Becoming a teacher has been my goal for a couple years but I'm starting to wonder if it'll be worth it to get a degree in teaching in the first place because of anti-trans hate and stigmas around trans people in schools.
I was fairly confident in my career path at first but after the president got elected in November there has been a lot more anti trans hate surfacing and the government has been taking away anti-discrimination laws that protected trans people. So if I get my degree schools might not be willing to hire me because they don't want to face backlash from parents or the govt for having a trans person interact with kids.
I have a couple different options I've been thinking about-
-go back in the closet - its defiantly not ideal but it would be safer for me. I would still be out to friends and family but at work I would be in the closet.
-become non binary? - I know this probably wouldn't make too much a difference but I feel it might help a bit bc they would probably see me as more feminine but I would still be able to see myself as masculine.
-become a high school teacher- not ideal but I feel like high school teachers have more leeway with they're lifestyle choices because they're working with teenagers and not young children. Especially if I major in math because there's a shortage of math teachers so they might be more inclined to hire me. The only issue is I don't like math or working with teenagers :( I'd be willing to try for this though.
-live loud and proud - what I want to do but it will probably be a lot harder for me. I will probably have a much harder time and may not be able to get a job in education as a result.
-switch career paths- I have no idea what I want to do other than education. If you have any suggestions that would be more friendly to trans people please let me know, I honestly have no idea what else I would want to do other than education but its good to know all my options.
Thank you for reading this and thank you for any advice you might offer me, but please keep your advice realistic. I know that I would love to live out as a trans elementary school teacher but that's not the easiest thing right now, so please let me know what you think might be the best option for me to have a secure future.
Everything happening right now is very stressful but I wish all of you the best and I hope everyone stays safe
I was fairly confident in my career path at first but after the president got elected in November there has been a lot more anti trans hate surfacing and the government has been taking away anti-discrimination laws that protected trans people. So if I get my degree schools might not be willing to hire me because they don't want to face backlash from parents or the govt for having a trans person interact with kids.
I have a couple different options I've been thinking about-
-go back in the closet - its defiantly not ideal but it would be safer for me. I would still be out to friends and family but at work I would be in the closet.
-become non binary? - I know this probably wouldn't make too much a difference but I feel it might help a bit bc they would probably see me as more feminine but I would still be able to see myself as masculine.
-become a high school teacher- not ideal but I feel like high school teachers have more leeway with they're lifestyle choices because they're working with teenagers and not young children. Especially if I major in math because there's a shortage of math teachers so they might be more inclined to hire me. The only issue is I don't like math or working with teenagers :( I'd be willing to try for this though.
-live loud and proud - what I want to do but it will probably be a lot harder for me. I will probably have a much harder time and may not be able to get a job in education as a result.
-switch career paths- I have no idea what I want to do other than education. If you have any suggestions that would be more friendly to trans people please let me know, I honestly have no idea what else I would want to do other than education but its good to know all my options.
Thank you for reading this and thank you for any advice you might offer me, but please keep your advice realistic. I know that I would love to live out as a trans elementary school teacher but that's not the easiest thing right now, so please let me know what you think might be the best option for me to have a secure future.
Everything happening right now is very stressful but I wish all of you the best and I hope everyone stays safe
My first manga was The Promised Neverland on some even shadier site with like fifteen Rebeccas in my area, and I was waiting for it to update and then someone sent a link here saying it was updated and I never looked back. I didn’t have an account for like two years but I caved when I saw that my friend had one, but then I lost it, so I made a new one ^ - ^
So what was your first manga and how did you wind up on this site ?
So what was your first manga and how did you wind up on this site ?
so my therapist misgenders me on purpose and uses my birthname she's been doing that since i had come out to her originally as nonbinary but then i told her i was a demiboy and she asked me "what's masculinity to you because anything society perceives as masculine is actually feminine and women rock like really what does a man even do?" and i basically said i had no answer because it's a social construct and for me to say masculinity is this anything would be wrong but i personally feel more comfortable identifying as a man and it make me feel more comfortable to present more fem because of it oddly enough as i posted in my last question i like femboys i admire them and i identify as one myself does that mean i'm not trans or that i can identify as male if i like femininity?
I know ppl use it a lot now for school. But what are your opinions on using it to write heartfelt messages to other ppl? Personally, I find it so disingenuous. It's feels so empty. Even at my lowest of lows, I'd rather get a message full of spelling and grammar mistakes than a message written by chatgpt. Thoughts?
am i the only one who thinks girls are prettier than guys?? like a girl called me sexist but (almost)every girl i've met has been pretty and only a couple of guys i've met have been pretty and I KNOW that i like both men and women with a preference for men but i also have a preference for femboys so this whole thing has me both questioning my sexuality and my morality.
Like when the lyrics are normal in the first listen but then listen to it closely to realise the meaning?
I'll go first, here are my top fav
" Ayo re ayo re ayo rangilo mehmaan, chora chori fark na samjhe, mare saabpe chalaang "
( Trans : Here comes the rainbow guest, doesn't understand the difference between girl and guys and so jumps on everyone )
From PK, and I never noticed this one
Honourable mention
Bhag (run) d.k bose, d.k bose, d.k bose
( Basically they meant bosedike, which is a curse in Hindi )
I'll go first, here are my top fav
" Ayo re ayo re ayo rangilo mehmaan, chora chori fark na samjhe, mare saabpe chalaang "
( Trans : Here comes the rainbow guest, doesn't understand the difference between girl and guys and so jumps on everyone )
From PK, and I never noticed this one
Honourable mention
Bhag (run) d.k bose, d.k bose, d.k bose
( Basically they meant bosedike, which is a curse in Hindi )
Look, most people above the age of maybe 17 (virtually everyone but minors themselves) can draw from their own experience of once being an insufferable teenager. It’s hard, I get it, of course. But some of these annoying children are just rude and obnoxious and have the understanding of a child (surprise) on subjects like moral ambiguity and darker themes in fiction. They refuse to actually have proper discourse over said topics and a refusal to be open to different perspectives. I genuinely don’t understand how people can lack very fundamental understanding of basic human etiquette. Contrarians are a dime a dozen in this world, and everyone will eventually have differing opinions, but some few, especially the physically disadvantaged (children), cannot seem to act according to decency. Is it so hard not to be immature and resort to pathetic personal attacks over fictional characters? And I swear to god the crusaders of moral superiority are so- so ironic. Firstly, campaigning about dictating what’s right and wrong in fiction based upon individual moral principle should be entirely disregarded because being on this website means that we are all equals and thus, SHOULD unite one another, but no. Anyways, I wish I could get all the disagreeable, rude, and frankly stupid people together in a big circle and exile them to some distant barren land to perpetuate misery among them. But who knows? Maybe I’m just a series of bad days away from becoming bitter and mean and terrorizing the few civil forums about gay manga/hw/hua. Everyone’s a hypocrite anyways, I guess.
Do y'all draw or paint? Either traditionally or digitally
I'm curious how many artists lurk around here xD and I'd like to see some of your art if you feel comfortable sharing a pic or two ^^
I myself paint with oils and acrylics and have mutiple digital sketches that not even god knows when they'll be finished... if ever :))
I'm curious how many artists lurk around here xD and I'd like to see some of your art if you feel comfortable sharing a pic or two ^^
I myself paint with oils and acrylics and have mutiple digital sketches that not even god knows when they'll be finished... if ever :))
Make yourself and your genderbend version for funsies ^^
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