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guys this was actually just a thought experiment, but i assure you that this is a real phenomena that happens to my ppl all the time, BOTH men and women give up their identity to marry the person they love from this specific ethnicity. since i've never fallen in love nor have i ever been in a relationship- i struggle to understand how they could ju...... 2 reply

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Cinnamon 19 days

Your bf never loved you for who you are if he is so adamant about you changing your identity. Fight this. If I'm marrying someone I would never ask them to change their identity because at that point, I would love them wholly and unconditionally for who they are. That's why I'd marry them in the FIRST place. Also, this conversation should have be...... reply

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you stAnky 19 days

No compromises?? If they do not have the empathy to understand that your culture and identity is as important to you as theirs is to them, then I think it will be an ongoing problem. If you already now encourage that their culture is worth more than yours, then I’m afraid it might subconsciously become a general attitude towards you. And to be ...... reply

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eastabunnyyo 19 days

Consider if you want them as in-laws. Many divorces happen because of people OTHER than your partner. And in many cases the in-laws are the reason. If they are so demanding NOW can you imagine what they'll be like when you're essentially under their control via your husband? If he doesn't even flinch at their suggestions or step up for you, it's ...... reply

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MooMATHEW 19 days

Tell ur bf u are not okay with it is he mama’s boy speak em reply

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Elle ne parle pas francais 19 days

Adding to what the others have been saying, oppression always starts like this. Now you "just" have to change your name and give up your identity but what's next? Assuming that this is targeted at women, it's really indicative for how this culture views women. You have to fully subjugate yourself to a man and his family. ESPECIALLY since your boyfr...... reply

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Onetime 19 days

This is the XXI century. Tell them to sit and spin. Especially if they are english. reply

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Kamisito 19 days

My hot take on this is that it depends on your boyfriend culture that you reverting to like is a culture you're curious and open to adopt as a lifestyle or do you have some reservations towards it and will you be able to keep some part of your culture to indulge doing from time to time too , if so i think you should do it but at least ask your bf t...... 1 reply

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Cute_KittenZ 19 days

Giving up yourself for love??? Then what the heck does your bf even love about you if your about to give up your whole identity??? Is that even love anymore ;_; reply

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Kuzuya 19 days

I was wondering if I could find some work (not necessarily a paid one). I’m not a native english speaker but I have at least a C1 level, so I can do some legit corrections in texts, I also speak polish, ukrainian and russian, so translating into those languages is something I could do. but I don’t know where to look. maybe there are some teams out here that might need my help with mangas/manhwas? appreciate the help!

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