Confused About Your Sexuality

Okay so for most of my life i have considered myself lesbian. i first discovered the term in like 4th grade and was immediately like ''yup. thats me.''
well this last year i got a bf. i thought that i liked him and must've confused my sexual orientation. well fast-forward like 6 months into this relationship and im gonna be honest i dont actually know if i liked him at all. As a friend yes, but romantically? i'm not sure. i mean, he did give me a hickey and it felt good??
this happened in middle school too bc i thought i liked a guy then broke up with him 2 days later bc i realized that was NOT it.
however, i do like yaoi, and find it arousing.. so am i actually gay? i don't do well with irl gay porn though, femboys are cute?
honestly im really confused. even if i got it wrong and i actually AM lesbian i already re-came-out to my family and friends as bisexual and i rlly dont want to have to be like '''ahahah take-backsies, actually.''

guys help im so fucking confused

I hope I can get some help in knowing more about my sexuality. So I like guys, but sometimes I can like girls(rarely), you can say that personality it's what makes me like someone. The problem is that when I'm making out with the person I like I don't get any feeling (sexual feeling) for me it's just simple physical touch that I'm allowing.
And I thought well maybe that wasn't a good kiss, but they all feel like that, even thou I really like the person.
So now here I am confused and all because like how does that even work?

i broke up with my ex bf two weeks ago and since then, i started doubting if i really like men bc recently i havent been attracted to them at all, maybe im straight after all not bi idk