Dates

I actually am. We have been together for the last 6 years and it's the forever kind. I don't care as long as I know he is keeping an active and healthy lifestyle. If he were the lazy kind, I woulda whipped his ass back to shape. I suppose he is just the plumpy kind? Besides,it's not the empty beauty that appeals me. Intelligence and strong personal......   reply

People who say they don't judge based on appearance are just saying that to make themselves feel and look good. Anyways, I would date a fat guy depending on their looks. I would say yes to overweight and mildly obese guys who will go to the gym with me to lose weight. I would pass on morbidly obese people. In the end, appearances matter. But just ......   2 reply

I generally don't judge anyone based on their appearance, but in the cace of fat + potential boy friend, I do take a second look. This is because I am trying to figure out if their fat because their lazy and make unhealthy life choices or if they are just what my mom would call "Big Boned" (my dads version of that for girls was "Pleasantly Plump" o......   reply

No not really. If he is chubby then sure. But I wouldn't date a fat guy. Just a preference, I just wouldn't want him as a partner, I am a lazy person myself so I do prefer active and healthy partners to keep me going.   reply

I did, and i don't really mind as long as our humor matched and he loves me a lot. But lol we broke up and now I'm in brokenheart state (=・ω・=)   reply

Personally, I wouldn’t, unless we developed from friendship and gradually fall in love (love from personality). Overweight person does not pose a good first impresssion as a boyfriend material. Their weight can also imply their health (get tired easily), how much they take care of themselves, and so on. But what matters the most is how you dress......   2 reply

No, no offence but it’s just my preference   reply

I may give you the corniest advice ever but seriously - be yourself! If you're nervous, it's okay! Actually tell this guy "Hey... can I tell you something? I'm sorry if I do or say something stupid today... I'm really nervous about this date..." Depending on what his answer is, you'll be able to figure out if he's a good guy or no. If he accepts i......   2 reply

Honestly, I have no problem at all! I love the softness! But it just can’t be unhealthy fat. I have no problem with partners that are fluffy and curvy, but I want them to be healthy! :)   reply

Well since I'm not the skinniest myself....I wouldn't be opposed to it. But I would date someone in the same range as myself (BMI for example). So I probably wouldn't date someone who's morbidly obese or has trouble doing everyday things do due their size   reply