Dates

Not unless he was working to change that, because as a person who was fat the first 20 years of their life, I'm not looking for someone who would encourage my old bad habits/ lifestyle. Trust me when I say I know that struggle, it took me a year of constantly working out and eating insanely clean, cooking everything for myself, eating a balanced d......   reply

tbh you shouldnt put yourself down like that 0-0   reply

I don't know if my answer is what you are looking for since I am almost twice your age. When I like a guy, I like him regardless of his weight. Because I like something about the guy that I don't directly associate with simple things like being ripped or being fat, being black or being blonde. When I was in high school, I was head over heals in lo......   1 reply

I've don't really date as such, I have sex and occasionally keep someone around to have sex with for a while. When I dated in the past, I didn't really have a specific body type I went for. I've had sex with all kinds of bodies, even very big people (not just chubby). It depends on what kind of person they are. Fat people have a lot more nooks and......   reply

People tend to think being fat is an indicator of health, but I've found most of the time it's not a great one. I know plenty of fat people that exercise and eat well, but maybe didn't win the genetic lottery. As for dating, do appearances matter in sexual attraction? Yes. But I think there's more to appearance than your body type and weight. Body......   reply

As a friend is OK, I don't mind. But dating definitely not because fat doesn't turn me on, impossible, as a result I wouldn't be able to have sex with him   reply

Tbh.....no I would not. Chubby is totally fine for me but a really fat guy is just not attractive in my eyes. Ofc I could find his personality very attractive or maybe even fall in love with him as a person... but I just wouldn't find him sexy and that would affect our sex life a lot sooo. Well that is only my personal preference....   reply

Fat guy or fat girl, I don't care. If I love someone I love them for who they are and if they are fat, I'll love that aspect of them as well. (⌒▽⌒)   reply

I actually am. We have been together for the last 6 years and it's the forever kind. I don't care as long as I know he is keeping an active and healthy lifestyle. If he were the lazy kind, I woulda whipped his ass back to shape. I suppose he is just the plumpy kind? Besides,it's not the empty beauty that appeals me. Intelligence and strong personal......   reply

People who say they don't judge based on appearance are just saying that to make themselves feel and look good. Anyways, I would date a fat guy depending on their looks. I would say yes to overweight and mildly obese guys who will go to the gym with me to lose weight. I would pass on morbidly obese people. In the end, appearances matter. But just ......   2 reply