Dates

I’m fat and 28 and have barely dated. Online there are plenty of dudes who seem okay with it. But I’m learning to accept I’ll be single forever . Being asexual it’s not to bad just a tiny bit lonely   2 reply

i wouldn't call myself fat. but i'm not skinny little thing. i'm curvy and have some extra weight in wrong places but it never made a problem for anyone to date me. some guys even like it better i guess. i'm bi so i myself think that weight isn't that important cause it's an attitude that makes person sexy and not only the body shape.   2 reply

I could never date a skinny man, even if he were smart, kind and so and, cause I could not have sex with him. Now that I am older, appearance matters, and I like big boys ;-) But when I was younger, dating someone was more a question of feelings, the sexual attraction was not what I used to take into account. Actually, you shouldn't care about that......   reply

I’m fat myself so I can’t judge. I dated a guy around the same weight as me and it was fine. Honestly if I like the dude as long as he is clean, takes care of himself and actually leaves the house then I’m fine   reply

as long as the guy is nice and respectful then i don't personally care about looks,, i mean i will swoon over a hot guy if i see one but i'm more attracted to a person's personality :)   reply

Got no problem with it at all *shrugs* my fiance was a chubby guy until he lost it all,looks are not everything   reply

If you’re forced to do anything you don’t like, don’t be with that person. Think about your health and your feelings first. Make sure you respect to this person and they show respect to you too. Also make sure not to eat a lot the day before cause you’ll might have to use the bathroom xD but also don’t starve yourself, your stomach might ......   reply

Well, currently dating a fatty ! When I got together with my boyo, he was 130 kilos, more or less. Annnnd... we really clicked. He was (and still is) a smart-ass bitch, funny as hell, a work-hard man and a cutie. I loved and still love his face and expressions. Before I knew, I was asking him out. We are together for two years now and it's the bes......   2 reply

If you're feeling unsure or lacking, as if you being you isn't good enough. Give yourself some time first to work on you. And I dont necessarily mean your weight. If you want a happy and healthy relationship then it's truly important to work on your mental health first. And don't worry too much, a lot of women like chubby guys. My boyfriend is over......   reply