So I came out to her months ago, told her I'm bi and non-binary. Then she brought up that she's scared of gay men since the one she met during her childhood kept on pulling her hair. She's also apparently scared of feminine gay men who likes make-up and feminine things because they're to "flamboyant". This all made me feel uncomfortable, I told her that just because one gay child was mean to you before doesn't mean that everyone will be.
Months later, we met again. She brought this shit up again. I don't want to discredit her experience with a mean person but lumping a whole marginalized group into your "bad idea" of someone is downright bigoted. I don't know how to confront her about this.
The more uncomfortable part is that she likes reading BL and would use the terms bottom and top. She even shared a gay sex meme and used those two terms. It's just so uncomfortable to witness especially when she says that she's "scared" of gay men but would actively consume media that portrays romantic and sexual relationships between men.
Months later, we met again. She brought this shit up again. I don't want to discredit her experience with a mean person but lumping a whole marginalized group into your "bad idea" of someone is downright bigoted. I don't know how to confront her about this.
The more uncomfortable part is that she likes reading BL and would use the terms bottom and top. She even shared a gay sex meme and used those two terms. It's just so uncomfortable to witness especially when she says that she's "scared" of gay men but would actively consume media that portrays romantic and sexual relationships between men.
I FINALLY decided to stop showering at my apartment because my friend and roommate never cleans up after herself in there. The tub is full of hair, her snot and what seems like dead skin flakes everywhere. You can't turn on the water without it pooling up immediately at your feet and all that nasty getting on you. I've been tolerating it because I thought she would have the decency to not make such a disgusting mess and like an idiot, gaslight myself "oh why not just clean a little bit, it's no big deal" but I'm moving out in like 3 months anyway so I guess I'll start my move early and cease cleaning any mess that I didn't personally make. My family home is 5 minutes away so I'm just gonna do the travel and shower there.
I am excited to see how dirty it gets until she finally decides to clean it. Cuz it ain't my problem anymore I'm showering somewhere else.
And yes, I've already made it clear in the beginning she needs to clean up after herself BUT SHE JUST KEEPS DOING IT ANYWAY so dont need to tell me to communicate with her. It's a lost cause. With the messes she leaves, it is CLEAR no one needs to tell her to clean, she just chooses not to.
I am excited to see how dirty it gets until she finally decides to clean it. Cuz it ain't my problem anymore I'm showering somewhere else.
And yes, I've already made it clear in the beginning she needs to clean up after herself BUT SHE JUST KEEPS DOING IT ANYWAY so dont need to tell me to communicate with her. It's a lost cause. With the messes she leaves, it is CLEAR no one needs to tell her to clean, she just chooses not to.
What are some of the worst injuries you've sustained?
For me, my worst would probably be some years ago when I had to get hospitalized for an ED (eating disorder, not erectile dysfunction). I was basically half-dead at that point, kind of like a zombie. Anyways healthcare is free in my country so it wasn't so bad. Got to eat some unusual food too, like lasagna.
For me, my worst would probably be some years ago when I had to get hospitalized for an ED (eating disorder, not erectile dysfunction). I was basically half-dead at that point, kind of like a zombie. Anyways healthcare is free in my country so it wasn't so bad. Got to eat some unusual food too, like lasagna.
Do you ever read your past comments and lowkey cringed like why did I wrote this(￣∇￣") you can show your most embarrassing one for fun ig
I know, I know cringe cringe, go to therapy blah blah blah. But EHHH,
I need a name, so please if you have name suggestions? I'll kiss your feet, seriously. None of the names I've found are so... bleh to me.
Because frankly, ??? Is so weird.
I need a name, so please if you have name suggestions? I'll kiss your feet, seriously. None of the names I've found are so... bleh to me.
Because frankly, ??? Is so weird.
give me some spice, something actually controversial and debated over! i'm tired of hearing about pineapple on pizza or mint chocolate chip ice cream.
I was just curious on how other people can masturbate. personally i find it weird to touch myself down there even though i'm around that age to do so (16). do yall feel the same way?? (btw this for the girls, but guys can comment too)
Hotel room 1 The ¨Who tf let you in¨
Sangwoo, Dojin, Seungho, Seung-Eon, Lee Kang, Myung Dae, Ahn Jiwon, Taesung
Hotel room 2 The ¨Gossiping¨
Chanwoo, Yu Yang, Na Kyum, Hysung, Heesoo
Hotel room 3 The ¨poor but not poor anymore¨
Doosik, Yoon Bum, Sungjoon
Hotel Room 4 The Bitches that feed off me (They don't deserve to be named)
Ci Nians Back faced brother, That one homophobic bitch in school(lol they are all the same people), Chanwoos using ex, That on dude in 10 years where I loved you the most, Ed´s cousin(I don't hate him that much)
Sangwoo, Dojin, Seungho, Seung-Eon, Lee Kang, Myung Dae, Ahn Jiwon, Taesung
Hotel room 2 The ¨Gossiping¨
Chanwoo, Yu Yang, Na Kyum, Hysung, Heesoo
Hotel room 3 The ¨poor but not poor anymore¨
Doosik, Yoon Bum, Sungjoon
Hotel Room 4 The Bitches that feed off me (They don't deserve to be named)
Ci Nians Back faced brother, That one homophobic bitch in school(lol they are all the same people), Chanwoos using ex, That on dude in 10 years where I loved you the most, Ed´s cousin(I don't hate him that much)