That's great, it starts with an earthquake, birds and snakes, an aeroplane Lenny Bruce is not afraid Eye of a hurricane, listen to yourself churn World serves its own needs, don't misserve your own needs Feed it off an aux, speak, grunt, no, strength The ladder starts to clatter with fear fight, down, height Wire in a fire, representing seven games......   reply
26 01,2024
I got ate up after starting some shit on this website, please encourage words of wisdom before i kill myself   2 reply
26 01,2024
Hola papi.   reply
26 01,2024
Hey I'm not really sure if my reply will be helpful. That person isn't really a friend, they're a hypocrite. Even if you've gone through ups and downs with them and are really close, what a true friend would've done as soon as you came out would be to try to be your safe space instead of being the exact opposite. A friend of mine told this to onc......   reply
15 11,2023
Best case scenario here is to ditch them. I'm in the same boat, in a sense that most of the self-proclaimed 'fujoshi' in my country is the same way. I have to always be wary whenever anyone says they love BL just because the majority aren't kind nor accepting of us queers if they ever truly met anyone that don't fit into those tight little boxes of......   reply
15 11,2023
You just described 90 percent of all fujoshis. Also for your friend I can only suggest ditching her since changing her mind on gay people will just take a toll on your own mental being trust me I tried with the people I know   reply
15 11,2023
Bigots always retroactively justify their prejudice with personal experiences and anecdotes. She also sounds like the type who's fine with gays until she sees one in the flesh.   reply
15 11,2023
So I came out to her months ago, told her I'm bi and non-binary. Then she brought up that she's scared of gay men since the one she met during her childhood kept on pulling her hair. She's also apparently scared of feminine gay men who likes make-up and feminine things because they're to "flamboyant". This all made me feel uncomfortable, I told her that just because one gay child was mean to you before doesn't mean that everyone will be.

Months later, we met again. She brought this shit up again. I don't want to discredit her experience with a mean person but lumping a whole marginalized group into your "bad idea" of someone is downright bigoted. I don't know how to confront her about this.

The more uncomfortable part is that she likes reading BL and would use the terms bottom and top. She even shared a gay sex meme and used those two terms. It's just so uncomfortable to witness especially when she says that she's "scared" of gay men but would actively consume media that portrays romantic and sexual relationships between men.
15 11,2023
And its always turfs that like yaoi, like jesus christ the fuck you doing here??? Don't like queer people when you can't fetishise us???   2 reply
15 11,2023

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