What The Heck Is Wrong With Me

There's this little exercise I do when people vent to me, just make casual eye contact, affirm their opinions, an occasional nod, holding their hand, leaning in to express that you're being attentive maybe cry a little if it's a really sensitive topic like a loved one's death and the most important thing, don't try to talk about your own trauma, t......   reply

Am I okay? That I feel discomfort every single time like for example I feel that with my family ,closed ones or even my bf I like hugs but I feel discomfort why is that am I weird and I wanna be a extrovert and I’m forcing myself for it I’m clearly a introvert and I chat with my close ones but I can’t talk infront of them it’s killing me a......   reply

Idk if you're necessarily young, but personally I think it's a skill that you get better at while cruising through life. I think I got better at it when my mindset about sympathy and witnessing other people suffering changed. Let go of trying to find the words to make the other person feel better. Don't expect that because many times you simply ca......   reply

I just call it bL so it flies under the radar for ppl who bearly read manhwa..   reply

Just click the button it's on left side of your truma backstory   1 reply

this may seem like a stretch from my part but that may b cz i dont rly know much abt ur situation, id say that having empathy or sympathy doesnt correlate with crying with someone and taking part in their pain but it can look like you just being there for them and even if ur silent jst letting them feel their feelings in front of u and providing th......   reply