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Every time I read a BL on this site that includes SA or rape, everyone in the discussion always has to denounce the offending character as a bad person or “wasted potential.” I’m not saying that these statements are wrong, because they’re right. However, isn’t it just pointless?

Everyone already knows that rape and SA is bad. This isn’t really an issue whose legitimacy is being questioned 24/7, and the prevalence of the trope in—what is essentially—fictional porn isn’t going to change that. Rather than going through the effort of typing out something that goes along the lines of “rape/SA is so disgusting. I’m dropping this!”, why don’t you just drop it without announcing to everyone? If you find it distasteful, then you are free to stop reading it whenever you want. Additionally, why repeat that rape and/or SA is disgusting when that is already a given? That’s like commenting “murdering an entire group for the acts of one person is bad” on a martial arts manhwa/manga/manhua. Everyone knows it’s bad in real life, but since it occurs in fiction, people are fine with it.

Of course, when it comes to these acts occurring in a fictional setting between two fictional characters, people’s opinions on them can vary, but in that instance, those who are uncomfortable with seeing them can simply do what I said earlier and just stop reading. There’s no shame in not liking something.

Another trend I see is that people often demean the author(s). Anytime there’s rape/SA in a story, the comments are usually like “Ugh, dropped, I can’t believe the author has to rely on the rape trope,” “Why do so many Korean authors have to write rape? It’s so disgusting,” “Can’t believe the author ruined this entire story for some rape content,” or something similar.

I’m not saying that people can’t be put off by the content. People’s feelings towards what they’re reading are valid, and that is not what I’m confused by; it’s people’s behavior that confuses me.

As stated repeatedly, if you don’t like a story, you can simply drop it without saying a word about it. (This is the last time I’m going to say this for the sake of not sounding like a broken record.) Furthermore, this behavior is just illogical. 99.99% of the time the author doesn’t even know these comments exist since we’re on an illegal website that is independent from official sources, so it’s not like what you’re saying is going to reach the author. Even if, hypothetically, they DO reach the author, it’s not like they’re going to change an entire plot line because “Oh, these people are uncomfortable with it.” All you’re doing is clogging up the discussion with the same message over and over.

Finally, these sentiments tend to end up with people accusing others of supporting rape/SA. Fortunately, only a small amount of people do this, based on what I’ve seen, but this behavior is still alarming. Comments like “if you continue reading this, you support SA/rape” or “just say you are a rape/SA apologist” are simply immature and useless. All that is achieved is making someone look bad for a belief they most likely don’t believe in. If these people are truly this incensed by rape/SA to the extent that they’re willing to accuse others of crimes over fictional content, why don’t they channel this energy into something more productive, like supporting women’s shelters or continuing to stand up against the sexual abuse that occurs in the workplace? Otherwise, all these people are doing is engaging in performative activism.

Just in case it needs to be said, please don’t accuse others of rape/SA and/or supporting these criminal acts without undeniable proof that is grounded in reality (i.e., not accusing someone of liking rape in real life because they like a fictional story that has it in it). We are all here to just have fun and read manga/manhwa/manhua.

(Pardon me if I sound rude and/or insensitive)

uhhh for some reason i got banned from omegle i didnt do anything lol i havent even opened omegle for like a long time so i was confused, and i tried to wait for like a week and a month but im still banned hahahahaha what the hell did i do... (╬￣皿￣)凸

I found a good story, i guess the plot is good but the problem is that, some pictures are s*xualiazed. It has no eichi or smut genres, what's going on? is this always happens in some manga?
And the characters in the story are all children, its making me uncomfortable since the story was really good.

I really don't get why some people always make fun of the things that make other people happy. If they are happy buying something, let them be. Don't ruin their happiness just because you don't like it. Smh

Normalize character development please.

as the title said

I don't get it when somebody tells to those people that it's wrong to give shit like top/bottom/uke/seme to 11-14 year old characters in anime cause they are literally children and the People who are doing shit defend this kind of shit by telling that in Japan the age of consent is 14??

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Just curious but why do people have a problem with lightsabers in yaoi?

Who was more selfish raven queen, or, apple white (ever after high.)

(imo it's apple, no one went 'poof' and raven is doing just fine, the only reason she wants her to sign is so she can have her good destiny. No one else's)

Ik it's dumb but i really want to know

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If you suck keaya’s titties hard enough will milk come out?

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Someone pointed out I should not cross over genres since it turns out my taste is obsecure, so taking the feedback from the first one... I decided to do BL since it's the most popular genre here. I have made a new and improved quiz!! Note: this is only the second one I've ever made, so it won't be that good either lol.

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WHERE DID LIKE MATE STOP PROCRASTINATING GO??????

Ive been freezing my sperm for a while to get some lucky lady pregos, any volunteers??

So I took off her shirt. Then she said,
"Take off my skirt."
I took off her skirt.
"Take off my shoes"
I took off her shoes.
"Now take off my bra and panties."
And so I took them off.










Then she looked at me and said, "I don't want to catch you wearing my things ever again."

Okay so, you know the scene in Horimiya where they had sex, right? The time when I was reading it, I was happy for them, blushing and such. But now? When I saw the pictures from that scene in anime, I don't know what I really felt. Was I feeling shy by seeing it? was it disgust? Or am I just jealous? I was so confused because I felt so uncomfortable and I don't get it why. Maybe I mistook my jealousy as disgust but why do I feel so conflicted like I hope they didn't include that in anime.

Please don't get mad at me. It's not like I'm really against it. Just confused why am I so bothered by it when I used to loved them and cheer for them. In fact, I'm still reading the manga.

just listened to yuri's version of touch you
i finally get the memes