Okay so yk how sometimes dicks are referred to as glow sticks and lightsabers ? I was dreaming that I was sitting on my bed next to my bsf and she was like “why are they censoring the dicks?” And I was like “lol no one wants to see meat popsicles”
Then I woke up
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Then I woke up
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why is there so many GLs having the "yuri" AND the "shoujo-ai" tag. how does it work? wasn't yuri a term used to describe mature content? and shoujo-ai is the more fluffy term who's more focused on the relationship with no sex whatsoever?
same thing coming to BLs. yaoi = 18+ content, shounen-ai = no 18+ content..
same thing coming to BLs. yaoi = 18+ content, shounen-ai = no 18+ content..
Im gonna lowkey expose someone, but there is still girl on this site that make accounts pretending to be different personalities. it's actually kinda scary ;/
First she pretended to be a lesbian terf and commented under yuri manga that was pro trans ( her name was ''homosexual not homogender"
then she pretended to be a yuri fanboy that was homophobic toward MLM and fetishized lesbians ( her name was yuri fanboy) and then she made an another account and called herself ' hethimedanshi1 and straighthimedanshi' which means straight male that likes yuri, i think you guys saw her she would be saying homophobic stuff toward BL, all those accounts are from the same country, when one is inactive the other one is being online, i found their twitter in which we can see her having a gallery of screenshots about her cosplaying as different people on mangago and she write the same. no straight male knows what a 'wlw' is trust me
First she pretended to be a lesbian terf and commented under yuri manga that was pro trans ( her name was ''homosexual not homogender"
then she pretended to be a yuri fanboy that was homophobic toward MLM and fetishized lesbians ( her name was yuri fanboy) and then she made an another account and called herself ' hethimedanshi1 and straighthimedanshi' which means straight male that likes yuri, i think you guys saw her she would be saying homophobic stuff toward BL, all those accounts are from the same country, when one is inactive the other one is being online, i found their twitter in which we can see her having a gallery of screenshots about her cosplaying as different people on mangago and she write the same. no straight male knows what a 'wlw' is trust me
Can yall share me your saddest relationship stories. Idc what your sexuality is. I just need to hear other people stories to make myself feel better. I know yall like to joke around n be like "im single" but a mf is going through smtg rn.
i know this website is legit the worst place to post this but i don't have the choice, it's either that or i have to make a tik tok and that would be cringe (not tik tok itself, me making a tik tok)
stuff that i honestly find lesbophobic
-people calling themselves bisexual lesbians:
now this is a though one, because it's not only disrespectful to bisexual people but also to lesbians. you can't be both. pick for once in your life. and stop being a fucking dumbass
- the fact that our representations are shitty:
people don't care about lesbians, because people don't care about women UNLESS she can have a little interest in a guy. so a woman that is interested in another woman ? why would i ever represent that... oh i know
f o r t h e m a l e g a z e
and if we ever make a lesbian character that doesn't have sex all the time or kisses all the she must be a white cisgender very "straight passing" woman. like all lesbians isn't it ?
the best representations that i've seen from now are in cartoons (poison ivy and harley quinn, or catradora etc...) . like i adore cartoons but i want something more tangible. like an actual show with actually well written lesbian characters without any white saviors plot :''). but ig the universe's not ready or some bullshit like that
(stage whisper)
-why does every single lesbian movie ends up terribly like they both die or they
(end of stage)
now
the
transphobiaaa
in the queer community
"you can't be a lesbian and be non binary. it is a term for women and women only. *proceeds to remove the white stripe in the lesbian flag*"
suck it man i'm still going to use it :)
"i would never date a trans woman *some bullshit*"
legit stfu, we don't claim you
and also racism, but as a white person, i can't really say anything about it, just i know that white gays we are privileged let's acknowledge it and uuh yeah let's fuck the white supremacists
uuuh
i'm running out of stuff to say
talk about your own experiences in the queer community and in the straight community as a queer person ig
(i've probably made so many mistakes very sorry it's currently 12 pm and i'm dyiiing inside yeehaw)
stuff that i honestly find lesbophobic
-people calling themselves bisexual lesbians:
now this is a though one, because it's not only disrespectful to bisexual people but also to lesbians. you can't be both. pick for once in your life. and stop being a fucking dumbass
- the fact that our representations are shitty:
people don't care about lesbians, because people don't care about women UNLESS she can have a little interest in a guy. so a woman that is interested in another woman ? why would i ever represent that... oh i know
f o r t h e m a l e g a z e
and if we ever make a lesbian character that doesn't have sex all the time or kisses all the she must be a white cisgender very "straight passing" woman. like all lesbians isn't it ?
the best representations that i've seen from now are in cartoons (poison ivy and harley quinn, or catradora etc...) . like i adore cartoons but i want something more tangible. like an actual show with actually well written lesbian characters without any white saviors plot :''). but ig the universe's not ready or some bullshit like that
(stage whisper)
-why does every single lesbian movie ends up terribly like they both die or they
(end of stage)
now
the
transphobiaaa
in the queer community
"you can't be a lesbian and be non binary. it is a term for women and women only. *proceeds to remove the white stripe in the lesbian flag*"
suck it man i'm still going to use it :)
"i would never date a trans woman *some bullshit*"
legit stfu, we don't claim you
and also racism, but as a white person, i can't really say anything about it, just i know that white gays we are privileged let's acknowledge it and uuh yeah let's fuck the white supremacists
uuuh
i'm running out of stuff to say
talk about your own experiences in the queer community and in the straight community as a queer person ig
(i've probably made so many mistakes very sorry it's currently 12 pm and i'm dyiiing inside yeehaw)
So I'm aromantic like I'm down to fuck someone I know but I'm really never emotionally attached to anyone. Someone just told me I'm demisexual/demiromantic but tbh idek what that means. Just wanted to know which was correct.
Lay your heart bear. Tell me where it hurts. I've heard writing helps, writing this helped me notice somethings. I hope this can help you as much as it helps me. I'll go first; its long so you don't have to read, I've tried to do my best to make sure if you wanted to you didn't feel alone:
I've been thinking about how all my problems usually revolve my motI've been thinking about how all my problems usually revolve my mother. She's emotionally and mentally abusive and manipulative. To her kids and potentially to her partners.
She's been gaslighting me for years. Every conversation is eggshells. When will she ridicule me today? How? For what? I even stopped eating some meals to avoid her since before she was deployed she stayed in the living room which is adjacent to the kitchen. Her boyfriend now usually resides there too so not much has changed since she left.
I freeze when I'm confronted. I know everything I want to say but I can't. She'll shred every honest feeling I have and crush me. I was even screened for depression, yelled at me to explain. Her boyfriend say children don't have enough worries to be depressed. Their asses even said that the concern was probably due to all the teen suicides LIKE IT WAS A DAMN INCONVENIENCE TO THEM. So I couldn't. My brother was suicidal just about a year earlier and was sent to therapy and that didn't change their view at all. I've made sure to lie on every screening test after that.
Made me doubt myself. Every mistake feels like it needs divine punishment. Forgot my clothes before gym practice so I went to get them, and they weren't there. Wouldn't help that when I went to ask a woman to open the locker room badgered me as to why I wasn't in class. I thought the teachers hate me. He said to run 2 laps I ran 3 because I wanted it to hurt. I felt like I needed to be punished. I cried the whole damn way. "The coach won't trust me now". "He must think I'm a vile liar". "I'm just a fucking liar". It hit me even more when I felt like I should hurt myself. Worse than before, thought I should get a concussion. My friends asked me why and I thought it would be solely because I existed. I didn't mean to say it. A half ass answer would suffice. I didn't even know I hated me so much.
I could never cut myself, but sometimes when I feel so defeated I punch myself. "You're so useless, you deserve this". "This is simple everyone else can do it." "You bring everyone down " It started on the legs. Migrated to my head, often I'm left with headaches, tried to stop but I couldn't. It was my only release.( Around this point of writing I've finally understood of how much this has been impacting me. )
I've stopped going to my friends houses because of my mom. Cried in a bathroom because my friends parents couldn't give me a definite answer for when they'd drive me home. I knew I would be blamed. I didn't try hard enough.
She says I don't have friends because I haven't been through anything. I've been through coming out with them. I've had one walk with me after a homophobic friend of my brothers found their way to gsa and I felt unsafe. Helped me through a panic attack. And an anxiety attack. And they make sure I feel heard. They make me feel safe. To have someone demean that brings me more pain than if she had just chosen to stab me in the heart.
I'm a shy kid who'll never manage in the real world. "You cry when everyone lectures you don't you? You won't make it like that". I only cry when I'm with you. Or thinking about you. The sight of your face petrifies me. Everyday I grow more and more aware about how much you hurt me.
I've got so much anxiety with people. I think everyone will ridicule me. Even my beloved friends. I hate her most for that. I hate I can't trust the people I trust most. It has long since been her.
I've done everything for her. I didn't do sports so I made sure I aced every test. "Praise me." It took everything out of me to be the smart kid. The gifted kid. Do all gifted kids have ADHD? Well I do, and this year everything came to bite me in the back. I even joined track. Stayed for the exercise, left for the competitons. I couldn't. It made me a anxious. It was the first thing I've ever done for myself against the will of my mother.
"Why didn't you stay in track?" "College would have been paid for if you did well?" Had a father yell at his daughter about how bad she was after an event. She wasn't, she did good. She probably tried her best. Did he even ask if she had fun? I'd believe in God again if it meant my mother would never become like that.
I'll make this the last because I could go for ages. The last thing I've wanted to say was, "were preparing you for the real world." "You'll be ridiculed if you're gay, you should reconsider." "Id rather think you're fine. Don't you want me not to worry?" I could go to the ends of the earth if you'd just say you love me and mean it. And show it. If you'd actually care for how I feel and less about how you did.her. She's emotionally and mentally abusive and manipulative. To her kids and potentially to her partners.
I've been thinking about how all my problems usually revolve my motI've been thinking about how all my problems usually revolve my mother. She's emotionally and mentally abusive and manipulative. To her kids and potentially to her partners.
She's been gaslighting me for years. Every conversation is eggshells. When will she ridicule me today? How? For what? I even stopped eating some meals to avoid her since before she was deployed she stayed in the living room which is adjacent to the kitchen. Her boyfriend now usually resides there too so not much has changed since she left.
I freeze when I'm confronted. I know everything I want to say but I can't. She'll shred every honest feeling I have and crush me. I was even screened for depression, yelled at me to explain. Her boyfriend say children don't have enough worries to be depressed. Their asses even said that the concern was probably due to all the teen suicides LIKE IT WAS A DAMN INCONVENIENCE TO THEM. So I couldn't. My brother was suicidal just about a year earlier and was sent to therapy and that didn't change their view at all. I've made sure to lie on every screening test after that.
Made me doubt myself. Every mistake feels like it needs divine punishment. Forgot my clothes before gym practice so I went to get them, and they weren't there. Wouldn't help that when I went to ask a woman to open the locker room badgered me as to why I wasn't in class. I thought the teachers hate me. He said to run 2 laps I ran 3 because I wanted it to hurt. I felt like I needed to be punished. I cried the whole damn way. "The coach won't trust me now". "He must think I'm a vile liar". "I'm just a fucking liar". It hit me even more when I felt like I should hurt myself. Worse than before, thought I should get a concussion. My friends asked me why and I thought it would be solely because I existed. I didn't mean to say it. A half ass answer would suffice. I didn't even know I hated me so much.
I could never cut myself, but sometimes when I feel so defeated I punch myself. "You're so useless, you deserve this". "This is simple everyone else can do it." "You bring everyone down " It started on the legs. Migrated to my head, often I'm left with headaches, tried to stop but I couldn't. It was my only release.( Around this point of writing I've finally understood of how much this has been impacting me. )
I've stopped going to my friends houses because of my mom. Cried in a bathroom because my friends parents couldn't give me a definite answer for when they'd drive me home. I knew I would be blamed. I didn't try hard enough.
She says I don't have friends because I haven't been through anything. I've been through coming out with them. I've had one walk with me after a homophobic friend of my brothers found their way to gsa and I felt unsafe. Helped me through a panic attack. And an anxiety attack. And they make sure I feel heard. They make me feel safe. To have someone demean that brings me more pain than if she had just chosen to stab me in the heart.
I'm a shy kid who'll never manage in the real world. "You cry when everyone lectures you don't you? You won't make it like that". I only cry when I'm with you. Or thinking about you. The sight of your face petrifies me. Everyday I grow more and more aware about how much you hurt me.
I've got so much anxiety with people. I think everyone will ridicule me. Even my beloved friends. I hate her most for that. I hate I can't trust the people I trust most. It has long since been her.
I've done everything for her. I didn't do sports so I made sure I aced every test. "Praise me." It took everything out of me to be the smart kid. The gifted kid. Do all gifted kids have ADHD? Well I do, and this year everything came to bite me in the back. I even joined track. Stayed for the exercise, left for the competitons. I couldn't. It made me a anxious. It was the first thing I've ever done for myself against the will of my mother.
"Why didn't you stay in track?" "College would have been paid for if you did well?" Had a father yell at his daughter about how bad she was after an event. She wasn't, she did good. She probably tried her best. Did he even ask if she had fun? I'd believe in God again if it meant my mother would never become like that.
I'll make this the last because I could go for ages. The last thing I've wanted to say was, "were preparing you for the real world." "You'll be ridiculed if you're gay, you should reconsider." "Id rather think you're fine. Don't you want me not to worry?" I could go to the ends of the earth if you'd just say you love me and mean it. And show it. If you'd actually care for how I feel and less about how you did.her. She's emotionally and mentally abusive and manipulative. To her kids and potentially to her partners.
So exactly five minutes ago I had a fight with my mother about being in the LGBTQ+ community. I am a bisexual woman and I am still in the closet. Since I was thinking about coming out to my mother I was trying to make some set up for coming out. And when there was a lesbian woman in a relationship in the movie we were watching I basically ask her what she was thinking about it. And she started talking about it being a ‘sickness’ or like faking it for attention. Saying that our religion doesn’t allow it, it’s a sin . So I was trying so hard to shut my mouth and end the conversation but she keep talking and talking. When I say that I support them she told me I have high tolerance and my tolerance is stupid. I fucking left her alone and shut my fucking door. I am about to cry but thanks to my anger I am fine right now. Someone please help me what should I do ?
Fun fact: im about to lose my shit on these babies.
Why? Simple, they punch me, kick me, throw toys at me, pull my hair, pull my clothes, follow me every fucking where, step on me, pinch me, tried to ride my back and lastly do everything they can to make me mad for example: almost breaking my 10$ headphones and breaking the Bluetooth receiver on our Bluetooth speaker :) aren't these devilish demon babies cute?.
Oh right, the only reason I haven't lost it is because of the simple fact that they're babies :)
Why? Simple, they punch me, kick me, throw toys at me, pull my hair, pull my clothes, follow me every fucking where, step on me, pinch me, tried to ride my back and lastly do everything they can to make me mad for example: almost breaking my 10$ headphones and breaking the Bluetooth receiver on our Bluetooth speaker :) aren't these devilish demon babies cute?.
Oh right, the only reason I haven't lost it is because of the simple fact that they're babies :)
why are there spongebob memes for anything? like you could find one for any context, anyway send some memes i can steal.
People who are a part of lgbtq+ are y'all safe in your country? If not, are y'all planning to move out to a safer country or fight for your rights till the end?
Personally I wanna fight for my rights here but it's a very long way to go and I doubt I'll reach my goal in my lifetime. But at the same time I would feel super guilty about leaving my country to marry because it feels like I'm running away. Also apart from the anti-lgbtq atmosphere here, I actually love my culture a lot and it would be painful to leave everything. What about y'all? I just wanna relate.
Personally I wanna fight for my rights here but it's a very long way to go and I doubt I'll reach my goal in my lifetime. But at the same time I would feel super guilty about leaving my country to marry because it feels like I'm running away. Also apart from the anti-lgbtq atmosphere here, I actually love my culture a lot and it would be painful to leave everything. What about y'all? I just wanna relate.