Is Being Lgbtq Okay

i know this website is legit the worst place to post this but i don't have the choice, it's either that or i have to make a tik tok and that would be cringe (not tik tok itself, me making a tik tok)


stuff that i honestly find lesbophobic

-people calling themselves bisexual lesbians:
now this is a though one, because it's not only disrespectful to bisexual people but also to lesbians. you can't be both. pick for once in your life. and stop being a fucking dumbass

- the fact that our representations are shitty:
people don't care about lesbians, because people don't care about women UNLESS she can have a little interest in a guy. so a woman that is interested in another woman ? why would i ever represent that... oh i know
f o r t h e m a l e g a z e
and if we ever make a lesbian character that doesn't have sex all the time or kisses all the she must be a white cisgender very "straight passing" woman. like all lesbians isn't it ?
the best representations that i've seen from now are in cartoons (poison ivy and harley quinn, or catradora etc...) . like i adore cartoons but i want something more tangible. like an actual show with actually well written lesbian characters without any white saviors plot :''). but ig the universe's not ready or some bullshit like that

(stage whisper)
-why does every single lesbian movie ends up terribly like they both die or they
(end of stage)

now
the
transphobiaaa
in the queer community

"you can't be a lesbian and be non binary. it is a term for women and women only. *proceeds to remove the white stripe in the lesbian flag*"
suck it man i'm still going to use it :)

"i would never date a trans woman *some bullshit*"
legit stfu, we don't claim you

and also racism, but as a white person, i can't really say anything about it, just i know that white gays we are privileged let's acknowledge it and uuh yeah let's fuck the white supremacists

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i'm running out of stuff to say
talk about your own experiences in the queer community and in the straight community as a queer person ig




(i've probably made so many mistakes very sorry it's currently 12 pm and i'm dyiiing inside yeehaw)

So I'm aromantic like I'm down to fuck someone I know but I'm really never emotionally attached to anyone. Someone just told me I'm demisexual/demiromantic but tbh idek what that means. Just wanted to know which was correct.