Yaoi Being Life Ruining

sam
25 08,2023
Tbh...its not a modern yaoi problem. Old yaois are shit like that also. The art has evolved, the world has evolved but the writing never did. As a new bl reader you tend to just read with the flow and ignore the red flags coz the author just merge it with the "pleasure". Its so foking annoying. But as you get used to reading more media and looking ......   reply
25 08,2023
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Just read smthin else or read "bl" by american writers. Like webtoon, I've seen some good shit on there and its prolly cause most the bls on there written by ppl from different countries that are more openminded and are gay. I only be reading the cringey bl on here when im in the mood to make fun of smthin! REALNESS!   reply
25 08,2023
Bubbles
25 08,2023
"Say 'I love you'" I watched it with my mom   1 reply
25 08,2023
Watching Romantic Killer   reply
25 08,2023
StalkerSTAN
25 08,2023
i dont remember bc i havent watched anime in like 2 years omg but ill take some recs ngl   reply
25 08,2023
skid marks 25 08,2023
they just love making gay couples to look and act straight as possible, hence, why the target audience are str8 women who can relate with their rs. the over feminization of the 'bottom' and big hunky masculine 'top' makes me so MAD LOLL   1 reply
25 08,2023
Fully agree with you and I will attempt to explain why the level of writing and storytelling has boiled down to problematic tropes and empty feeling stories: 1) when we look at the most popular stories on paid sites like lezhin, the pattern of toxic “love” stories plus good to amazing artstyle are usually the top 10, so the authors get positiv......   1 reply
25 08,2023
Nah, completely agree with you. I used to be able to read yaoi and shoujo all the time and when I was younger I could ignore the rape tropes and random ass misunderstanding and just pass them off as a way to make the plot more juicy but now I just get the ick. Why does the uke need to be raped for him to fall in love with the seme? How does that ......   1 reply
25 08,2023
Its a horrible excuse for bad writing, sexual violence and abuse isnt needed to create a dramatic bad to good guy story (i hate the 'he will change for you' narrative in general). BL's are usually heteronormative and the thing about the bottoms suffering if they're bad people and the tops not is rooted in the misogyny extremely prevalent in korean ......   1 reply
25 08,2023
Lace
25 08,2023
you're definitely normal. Whoever likes stories that are based on romanticized rape basically the plot, are the weird ones. I hate the fact whenever the bottom muster the courage to refuse and defend himself the author always made the bottom feel guilty and at fault, that felt like the author trying to say that the bottom is actually the one who i......   2 reply
25 08,2023

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