Can I Vent It Out

I have been waiting to write on here for a while but never had the balls to do so. I'm 19, female and living with my boyfriend of 3 years. We moved into together after I graduated high school, he is a year older than me. Ever since we moved in, his sexual drive has been low. Super low. I noticed it almost immediately because he used to always be in......   reply

Violence isn't ever an answer, but it's always a valid question. If it ever turns out that the answer is "yes", then it should immediately be asked "why". If there's a calm, reasoned answer (ex: "My kid took a swing at me and I wanted to teach them that if they tried that elsewhere, then they should be prepared to be hit back. So I gave them a spa......   reply

depends on the situation, a spanking or a flick is somewhat better then full on kicking/punching your child to get your point across. but that should come after using words and shit, or just give them household chores?? **also i do not condone violence or anything along those lines but yk, sometimes a good flick will straighten out their act.   reply

NO WAIT, I forgot to add that I'm not raising any childrens, I was just curious lmao don't misunderstand. I wanted to know because my mom often used to pull my hair or slap my arm (and her hands were made of steel or something because it hurted like hell), I was a bit scared of her but she raised me pretty well and I still love her, so I was just w......   reply

If u want your kids to resent u,lose their trust,hide things from you,lie then go ahead n hit them.   3 reply

There's a very huge gap between a "spanking" and a "beating". There's also a huge difference between discipline and a parent doing it out of personal frustration, because at that point it's just flat abuse and the parent blowing off steam. I grew up in the verbal warning first then spanking next type of household. I'm totally fine. Better than the ......   3 reply

I think it's better to give them a whooping or something to scare them a bit because sometimes words aren't enough and then sometimes the child won't stop. (I'm sure parents/guardians are going to get tired from telling the child the same thing over and over) so from experience, I learned better through consequences than just chores and other thing......   1 reply

Why are you guys normalizing hitting your children ya know that can cause mental issues or nah?   2 reply