Questioning Age Ratings

I began reading very explicit romance novels when I was eleven years old. So I'm the last person who should judge! However, when kids and teenagers see porn - and I'm not just talking about manga, comics, and books - they're seeing an idealized and often violent version of sex. In many yaoi books, rape is okay as long as the two main c......   1 reply
05 07,2016
Thanks for all the responses! I have read through and here are my general replies to some of the main counterpoints i heard (in case you want to hear them): - if you think that some kids can't handle something at a young age, or that when you're below 18 you should keep you're innocence or 'only learn the right things' then i would object. people e......   2 reply
05 07,2016
I agree that it should be okay to be more open about these kinds of stuff. It's like, why make porn a secret when a lot of people know about it? It's probably a lot better to make the kids more aware about what shit they're watching. I don't think it's really unavoidable, getting the kids to watch/read porn. During the hormonal period, you get cu......   1 reply
05 07,2016
I have thought about it. In my opinion, I think that's it's alright for pornographic content to be screened. Because it's all up to the individual. If he/she's curious about sex, then those age restrictions are easy enough to get through. But as there might be some who do not want to know about it too early since they mind rules (not that it's bad)......   1 reply
05 07,2016
I see no reason to show kids sexually explicit content such as yaoi and yuri. Those genres are pretty much porn and who in their right mind would show a child porn? Besides, yaoi and yuri mangas often display unhealthy relationships and notions about love. Like someone else in this thread already mentioned, yaoi and yuri are so unrealistic that the......   1 reply
05 07,2016
I find it a bit awkward that 11 and 12 year olds are on here reading porn. I didn't start reading yaoi until I was 18/19, which was a decade ago. The thought of kids not much older than my niece reading this stuff...real squicky. In regards to whether it should be okay or not, I would lean toward "not". It's not that sex should be shameful or anyt......   3 reply
05 07,2016
* Oops! first i accidently posted this as an answer to Arilas answer! I really don't think that younger people can learn a lot of things about sex when reading those kinds of things. Because honestly yaoi or yuri or ecchi or smut is incredibly unrealistic (people coming an abnormal amount of times, selflubrication, being u......   reply
05 07,2016
I'm not sure if this is really an answer to it but when I was like really little I was molested by my uncle. I don't know if it was just that but I've been told that compared to most of the teenage people around me and maybe some adults I'm quite mature for my age. I don't really remember when I got into anime or yaoi but besides normal reading it ......   1 reply
05 07,2016
Sorry if i come off as blunt or radical. And, side note, this may get a bit psychological... ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭

In this day and age, the general belief i seem to be getting from the culture & media around me is that sex should not be a shameful topic, and people should be able to talk freely about it and learn about it without having to be ashamed.

If so, in keeping with this idea, would it not be fair to allow the underage to read sexual materials such as yaoi or ecchi or smut or yuri? Don't get me completely wrong, I do think it is right to uphold things like statutory rape and prohibiting graphically violent material (such as gore like disembowelment or similar stuff) to kids. But if we are to become a more open society about ideas such as sex we should give them the information they need so they have time to contemplate what they want and to absorb all the information.

kids don't magically transform into adults on their 18th (or 21st, for that matter) birthday. they aren't magically imparted with sexual knowledge and mental preparedness that they will need to deal with it when it actually happens! They need to be taught. yaoi, or sexually explicit material, is just a method to expose people to sexual ideas that they might actually enjoy (and introduced in a non-clinical way such as a formal class about sex).

in the future, if we can stand to let go of this social norm, i think it would be good to change this one little thing about "TV-MA" or "R18" from sexually explicit material to just violently graphic.

Just FYI, I am a supporter of people also getting a formal and up-to-date education on sexual health and conduct. I have taken such classes myself but without reading yaoi there would be a lot I would miss out on. And, another plus to reading yaoi, you can't be too embarrassed to ask!

again, sorry if this is just me ranting to get my opinion out there. feel free to reply with your own take on sexually explicit material and it's age restrictions.

*** this question disregards the factor that a lot of kids read R18/TV-MA stuff already despite it saying 'don't read if you're not above 18'. this is about social stigma and formal regulations not de facto.
27 06,2016

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