Fetishes And Kinks

You defently shouldn't be ashamed of such matter. These things called kinks, they're just tastes in relationships. There's nothing wrong with wanting to do something different every once in a while, right? It's nice to share personal tastes with friends, and of course there will be differences, but in the end its you and your lover. After being wit......   reply

I don't think you have anything to be ashamed of, because everyone is different, and we all have some kind of fetish. To put it simply, it's human nature/ lust. And it's not just you , and I think your friend is too closed minded .   reply

I think LoreHappy put it quite well, the only thing I would add is that everyone is different, and has they're own tastes/kinks. I personally seem to have a fancy for food-related stuff. I think you should try explaining that everyone has they're own interests and that what she said hurt you. I think she probably didn't mean it spitefully. She was ......   reply

First of all, no. If your fetishes doesn't hurt anyone (and if it does but your partner like it and it is not that grave) and it makes you feel good, NEVER feem ashames about it. If your partner it's okay with it, go tell 'em anything you want them to do to you. Now then, let's talk about your friend. I don't think you should not talk about your k......   2 reply

Of course you shouldn't be ashamed. As long as whatever you for remains between you and your partner and they agree with it, you shouldn't have to be ashamed. BUT if your friend doesn't like hearing about that kinda stuff, don't talk about it in front of her. She may be feeling uncomfortable, so it's important to respect her as well. Instead, if yo......   2 reply

Don't listen to your "friend". As long as it's not against the law, and if your partner agrees, who the fuq cares if others don't approve. There's something wrong with the friend who told you to be ashamed, lose her! And I would def try anything once or twice (if it's safe and with a partner i trust), life is too short to live like a dried up tree.   1 reply

No, don't be. It's all a matter of person taste and responsibility. Everyone has their thing, and that just happens to be yours. The best thing to do is be mindful about how you talk about it. I'm not saying you should deny it, but maybe not be so open about if you are worried about how people will view you. Another thing to keep in mind is that ......   reply

You shouldn't be ashamed. However, you shouldn't also be 'too' loud about things like that. Not everyone is open-minded to hear about those. As for your partner, you can ask him if he's game with it. If yes, then go. :D   reply

you dont have to because it only concerns you and your partner, but you need to understand that not all people can accept things like that, its not that its shameful or anything its just that they dont understand it or they're not that open minded and its nobody's fault, just dont talk about it to the people you know that is conservative or such or......   reply

i don't think you should be ashamed of it, but you have to ask yourself first; maybe you made that close friend uncomfortable? Some of my closest best of friends aren't comfortable with that kind of topic and while I myself am very open to discuss stuff about sex and such, I try my best to respect them and try to not rub it in their faces so much.......   reply